Freaky Good Man

The wedding present.

There was a female I met while staying at my condo that was pretty cool. She had recently gotten engaged and was a few months away from moving to New Jersey to be with her husband to be. After she had gotten engaged she still wanted to play. I told her I wasn’t comfortable with it and that we wouldn’t play anymore. She wasn’t very happy about it, but rolled with the punches. We would communicate every so often just to catch up. The closer she came to leaving the more frequent she would bring up having one last play session. She switched gears and said that she had told her fiancée about me and because he was a bit older than her he was ok with her having a little fun until she got to New Jersey. She went as far as having general conversation with me when he was in the car with her and even giving him the phone so we could have general conversation. Now this conversation had nothing to do with the two of us playing, but I think she was trying to convince me that she has been open and honest with him.

We have this long conversation about some of the things she really wanted to try before she became official and it was some pretty good stuff. Some of it was more fantasy in the mind type scenarios, but I think if it could have been set up in the right way she would have went for it. One of the things she told me that she really wanted to try was being fisted. For those of you who have been reading me for awhile, I have had an experience attempting to fist a woman and have been open to experiencing it again. Needless to say, we ended up setting a play session up.

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Does your church challenge you? Seriously. Think about all the things that are going on in the world. Truly think on a global level and ask is your church challenging you. I think the Christian church has some fundamental flaws and lacks connectivity to current world events. The black church in my opinion is even further behind the curve than mainstream churches in America.
Now do not get this confused with what my Christian beliefs are. I believe in Jesus as my Lord and savior, I believe in the holy trinity, etc. etc.

My concern is what is really being discussed and taught in today’s churches. Are these things really what should be discussed or should there be a broader platform of teaching going on in our churches.

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What the deal is my people!

What have I been up to?

Wow, where do I start?

Let me hit on some specifics and go from there to update everybody.

I am still single.

Will turn 38 in April. I see why old folk forget there age. Instead of me enjoying 37 my ass is steady looking at 40 like oh shit that bitch is right here. 40 sitting there looking at my ass like that dumb as pile of money on those stupid Geico insurance commercials. lmao That age thing will mess with you if you let it. Then you have shit that remind you of it to. I will have my 20th high school reunion this summer. It’s like what the FUCK! 2o damn years!

Still in pretty good health. Need to lose about 10 pounds, but still playing ball and enjoying beating these young dudes on a regular basis.

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This was written (I think) September 07 and was never posted. So, decided to finish it up and bring it to you.

Over the Labor Day weekend I was a little bored one day before I headed to a BBq. So I got on to BP and was browsing. I decided to send messages to females asking a question that I knew would get a response. Like I said I was bored. I started sending out the message asking the question: “Why do so many black women think it’s so taboo or won’t try anal sex when it can provide such a great orgasm?”

Now when I sent this out I was sure that I would get some replies but I wasn’t sure exactly what they would be like. Apparently women have some pretty strong opinions about the whole anal thing. Now there were women that said they didn’t have a problem with it and they really enjoyed it. There were even some that simply said, I tried it but I didn’t like it. All of those things are fine. The problem came when several women responded by saying that men who like anal sex were gay or prone to be on the DL.

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Your blog inspired me to start mine. Your thoughts were fun, insightful, entertaining and uncut. You turned out being a cool “internet” friend. We shared a few laughs and actually a few phone calls. I was impressed that you were fighting for yourself and your future. You didn’t seem to want to just get by with a sexy face and a nice body. I could always tell you were a bit torn with some of the things that were in your life, but who isn’t? You seemed to be putting up a good fight on finding your path. I will never forget how you texted me and told me you were thinking of doing porn. I think I saved the texts for over a year. I have to tell you my heart sanked. It wasn’t some “captain save a hoe” moment, but I truly felt OH NO DON’T DO IT! My gut said you were a good woman just trying to find her way and you didn’t know where else to turn. If you remember (I do very vividly) I invited you to hang out with me while I was in Vegas around the exact time you were heading to Cali to start filming. I was wishing and hoping you just needed some time to get away from things and re-think what you were about to do. Unfortunately (in my opinion) you went through with it. I can tell by some of the message board stuff that was posted that it was a stressful time for you and you struggled with the decision although you publicly stood by it. I remember when you told me that you had actually started doing some scenes and was hanging with a couple female porn stars as we were on the phone talking. When I saw your first video, I didn’t see the vibrant person I had gotten to know. A small part of it was hot as I saw you doing some things that you told me were turn ons, but as the camera went back to your face you seemed like a lost soul. In my opinion the porn world never got to see the pretty you, but maybe that’s how it’s suppose to be. We were out of contact and you popped up via email one day and we briefly caught up. You shared with me your new video blog and I thought, cool she is getting back to a medium where she can express herself. Once again, I saw a shell of the person I thought I had gotten to know. Several of your blogs were done while intoxicated and it just didn’t shed a good light on you. Now here I am writing to you out of the blue on a late Saturday night. Why? I am not sure, I guess I’m hoping that things are going well for you. Also, to let you know I am still rooting for you. Good luck to you my “internet” friend. Be blessed.

Ok Ladies,

This post is specifically for you. Most of you have a man, boyfriend or husband that shuts you out when it’s football season. He either goes to the basement and doesn’t want to be bothered or he heads out to watch the game with his boys.

Now let me say this before I continue. A man needs time with his boys or to himself for that matter. So, if his only time away from you is watching the game this may not be for you. This is for the ladies out there that want to get SOME of the time they are losing with their guy back during football season.

Keep in mind that when a man is watching the game one of the things he hates is having to take the time to explain the game every few minutes. Take the time to try to learn the game. I guarantee you your man will give you much props.

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I am in a freak drought. Where oh where did all the freaks go? Most of the reason I haven’t posted lately is that I have been very busy with business and trying very hard to get over this hump. I have so many things that are right there ready to pull me over the top, but just not able to get those last few feet. The other reason, my life has been boring the last month or so. No good freaky shit going on.

I have not been able to meet any cool women that are open to some fun good freaky sex. Got incredibly frustrated with this younger female that I am cool with. Everytime we met it was like dealing with a virgin. She was always talking about baby steps. This chic was damn 27. On top of that, it was not like I was putting a full court press on. In fact, I would make sure what she was cool doing before we even got together.

Not here to bash her, but where are all the other cute, sexy and freaky women? Seems like most of the freaky women are bi and just looking for women to play with.

A brother been feigning for a little backdoor action, been a minute since I had that. Where is Ms Les when you need her? Been wanting a little D/s play to and no luck.

If all the sexy female freaks are on strike will someone please meet there demands. If someone has locked all of them up please release the hostages. If someone put the word out there that I was no longer interested in great sex, IT’S a LIE!

Hopefully all of you other wonderful people out there are having great freaky sex. If you got a friend, of a friend of a friend that likes to get freaky. Tell them to hit your boy up.

4th of July Fireworks. I met a new female right before the Fourth Holiday. We hit it off with our conversation and general outlook on life. We decided we would meet up later on the 4th after we have made our rounds for the day.

She shows up in a cool summer dress, basically a sundress. We meet to get some ice cream and have conversation. While we are there she says she wants to go see the fireworks. Well at this time its already 9 and most of the shows have started. We were not too far from Six Flags so we drive to this overlook where you can get a good view of the show.

We get there and apparently we missed the show. All we could see was fireworks being shot up in the neighborhoods surrounding Six Flags. There is another couple at the spot as well. They hadn’t seen anything either and end up leaving.

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That ghetto love shit is off the chain. I wrote about one of my teammates before that is a good guy, but is a stereo typical black male. He has 3 or 4 different baby mamas. I cannot find the entry for some reason where I wrote about him, but I wrote how his latest baby mama jumped in the mix when a fight broke out in a game we had. Oh, she ran a left her newborn twins on the sideline to go jump in the fight. Now keep in mind, my team was already in the mix defending our guy so things were well under control. But, she ran in there to defend her man swinging on grown ass men anyway.

Anyway, those two have had a lot of up and down moments over the last few months (imagine that FGM). They have broken up and he has been kicked out of the house all to get back together. Well the shit was about to get ugly today on some real fucked up shit.

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I caught up with a female that made an appearance here on the blog in a story a few weeks ago. I wrote this blog about Memorial Day Weekend last year, when Myself, Ms Les, My Cousin and this other female met up at the swingers club.

Me and the other female hadn’t been in touch much over the last couple of months so I texted her to see how she was doing. We end up talking and catching up. She told me about a recent experience she had and it really made me curious to how many women would be open to this with in the right scenario.

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I was checking the notes on my BP page tonight and saw a list that I thought was pretty interesting on someone’s page. Its title is 9 Reasons Why A Man Does Not Call You Back! Since, I have a good female following, I thought I would share this.

When you look at this list, it is pretty straightforward but it hits the nail on the head. I was at a nice house party last night and I could spot out several of these women there.

I am going to add my little two cents after each category.

9 Reasons Why A Man Does NOT Call You BACK!

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It is always funny people watching. In particularly watching cats try to spit game at a woman. Always some really enjoyable and quality entertainment. This is another article I read on one of my favorite message boards. It is a female giving her opinion on men approaching a woman.

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NOW THAT THE sun has come out and decided to stay a while, short skirts, tank tops and cute sandals are the typical dress-down style for girls on the go. Walking down Yonge Street, I am feeling like my mojo is in full effect. I’m looking and feeling good.

Then, suddenly, I hear it: “Pssssssssssssssst.”

I ignore the familiar sound and keep walking, hoping that my message will get across. But again I hear the high pitched blast aimed at me. “Pssssssssssssssssst — can I talk to you for a minute?”

“Psssssssst — shortie, where you going? What, you don’t wanna talk to me?”

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This was a story someone posted on a message board I check out. I thought the shit was hilarious. Gotta becareful and think out some of the freaky shit you do. But, like they say, if it don’t kill ya, it makes you stronger or at least more careful. lol

On Fathers Day in the afternoon I was baking a chocolate cake, my husband came up behind me and was like “you gonna give me some of that chocolate?” I was like “Yea, later tonight”.

So that night, I creeped up on him w/ warm fudge icing. I rubbed it on his dick and licked it off. I repeated this for like 20 minutes or so. Then he was like “let me get the camera and warm it back up, I wanna pour some on you”. I was like

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This is my 200th post. I honestly can’t believe I am still writing in this thing now. I know, I know, I just got back to it after a hiatus. But, when I started writing I had no idea where this would go. This has been a bit therapeutic and fun as well.

One of the things I never expected from blogging was the chance to develop friendships. I have a couple of people that have become true friends through this blog. That along has been worth the journey.

When I realized that I was coming up on this milestone, I kept thinking I have to do something special and really never came up with anything over the top. So, I just decided to just write about what has changed in my life over the last 199 blog entries. I am writing this completely off the cuff, so this entry may float from place to place, just bare with me.

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The principle behind this is straight garbage. Once you fuck you are no longer a virgin. You also have chics that consider themselves “born again” virgins. Which is also straight garbage. I am sure this is going to gain popularity here in the States.

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PARIS: Sitting in a cafe near the Champs Elysees, the 26-year-old French-born woman of Algerian descent looks like any other Parisian. But two months ago, she did something none of her friends have done. She had her hymen re-sewn, technically making her a virgin again.

“I’m glad I had it done,” said the woman on condition of anonymity. “I wanted to reconstruct part of my life, to reconstruct myself so that I could feel better about myself.” This 30-minute outpatient procedure, called “hymenoplasty” and costing between $2,000 and $4,000, is increasingly popular among young women of north African descent in France.

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