Here is a question that was asked in response to a post I just made (Are you afraid to share?) .
Personally, I find it very hard to share only one desire with my significant other.. That desire is to be with a woman and actually we could do participate in it as a 3 some. My hang up in telling him is from previous conversations were we would be talking about certain situations in our lives and I get this feeling that he really wouldn’t be that into it and he may view me in a different light. Sometimes I just wanna come out and say it, hell he told me he has done it before but he says he just wasn’t that into it.. I’m not really sure what to do I have thought of renting a few girl on girl movies that have some 3 some scenes in it and tell him that’s hot.. do you have any suggestions?
There are a couple of things that need to be addressed before I give suggestions. One thing I want you to reflect on and ask yourself (I think we all need to do this). If the person you are with is really the one will they really judge you if you share your most intimate desires? A person that truly cares about you is not going to change their thoughts of you as a person because of the sexual desires you have. Now, that is not saying that person has to want to try it or agree with it. Everyone has their own thoughts, desires and boundaries.