April 2, 2009
Good first fucks can be hard to come by sometimes. You may like similar things, but you like them done in different ways. So many minor things can make very average sex be great or bad and newness is always a wild card that can fuck things up. But, good first fucks are always memorable.
I met a lil hot Latina mamma a few weeks ago. Had a cool regular first date, but we were both very open about what we enjoyed sexually and I think that translated into a fun first fuck. It was a nice day time adventure where I set some ground rules and she went with it and it turned fabulously.
I told her to come to my crib with a short skirt on and no panties. I also told her that once she came to the door that she could not say one word to me. No hello, how you doing, NOTHING. I emailed her directions to my spot with those detailed directions that women like. You know, you going to turn right at the light where the Chuckie cheese is and then left once you pass two stop signs and a drunk on the corner.lol The only thing about the good directions, I was sure that she would call at least once to make sure she was going the right way and she ended up getting there a few minutes before I was expecting, but everything was cool.
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February 20, 2009
Ladies, can we please talk? This is getting to be a bit much. This was on Oprah last season and I was reading an article that discussed the issue yesterday. What am I talking about? Glad you asked. This “grave” statistic that says 42.4% of black women have never been married.
Why would I have an issue with this statistic? Because the way the statistic is presented doesn’t in itself tell any meaningful story, yet when I have seen the percentage mentioned, it makes it seem like a black woman doesn’t have a snow ball chance in hell to get married to a black man. Does this mean that 42.4% of black women will never get married? No it does not. In fact the US Census says that by the time a black woman reaches the age of 50 that number drops to 14.6%. Which means the vast majority of black women will eventually be married. When you leave the first statistic out there to stand on it’s on, it gives a false impression that all black men are in prison, there are no good black men left to marry and one of the most tired statistics that black women consistently put out there: the 1 black man to 8 black women ratio.
Am I saying there are no issues in the black community regarding dating and marriage? Of course not, but at the same time there are statistics that are being presented that do not tell the whole story or give a clear picture of what the case really is.
Let’s truly look at some of the US Census numbers and put some things into perspective. When I first heard the 42.4% number of black women that have never been married, one of the first things that came to my mind was how many black men have never been married? The way the numbers are presented its like there is this huge number of black women out there single and black men are either off marrying white women or in jail. It would seem that 42.4% of black women are just shit out of luck when it comes to their chances of being married.
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September 6, 2007
Ok Ladies,
This post is specifically for you. Most of you have a man, boyfriend or husband that shuts you out when it’s football season. He either goes to the basement and doesn’t want to be bothered or he heads out to watch the game with his boys.
Now let me say this before I continue. A man needs time with his boys or to himself for that matter. So, if his only time away from you is watching the game this may not be for you. This is for the ladies out there that want to get SOME of the time they are losing with their guy back during football season.
Keep in mind that when a man is watching the game one of the things he hates is having to take the time to explain the game every few minutes. Take the time to try to learn the game. I guarantee you your man will give you much props.
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July 2, 2007
I was checking the notes on my BP page tonight and saw a list that I thought was pretty interesting on someone’s page. Its title is 9 Reasons Why A Man Does Not Call You Back! Since, I have a good female following, I thought I would share this.
When you look at this list, it is pretty straightforward but it hits the nail on the head. I was at a nice house party last night and I could spot out several of these women there.
I am going to add my little two cents after each category.
9 Reasons Why A Man Does NOT Call You BACK!
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July 10, 2006
I finally got the chance to play with a friend that I had met over a year ago. We met in person at a party last summer. We flirted a bit but nothing was pursued from either of us. We did keep in touch and would check on each other from time to time.
The other day I saw her online and we started to chat and catch up with each other. She had been familiar with the blog, but she hadn’t really been keeping up with it so I told her to check out the latest updates.
After discussing what we had been doing since we last chatted and talking about the latest adventures on the blog. We decided to hook up but this time with the intentions of being very very bad. lol
We decided to hook up Saturday night and on Sunday we tentatively had planned to go to the swingers club. She had never been, but had read about my experiences on the blog. The reason I say Sunday was tentative is that I knew that it was a good chance that she may change her mind about going.
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May 8, 2006
I was able to hook up with my good friend Ms Chocolate Orgasm last week for the first time since before Lent. She had decided to give up sex for Lent as well. About two weeks before Lent was to end Ms Chocolate Orgasm meet someone that she really liked. We had an agreement that if either of us met someone for a serious relationship that we would remain friends but the sex would stop. When Lent ended, I was looking forward to hooking up with her, but she was pretty smitten by this new guy. So no sex for and Ms Chocolate Orgasm until this guy messed up.
Since the guy messed up, we were free to fornicate. lol She came over to my house and we talked for a while then she jumped in the shower and so did I. I gave her a t-shirt to put on and nothing else. As I sat on the sofa I told her to come give me a lap dance. As she started grinding on my dick, I reached around and started rubbing on her clit. My dick was hard as a rock and her pussy got very wet. She had a small orgasm while doing that and I was ready to feel inside her, but she got on her knees and started sucking my dick.
She did a great job sucking my dick. It was throbbing and it looked like it was extra long going in and out of her mouth. She stopped sucking my dick and asked me to please taste her pussy. She really wanted me to eat her.
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March 9, 2006
I have a few entries that I have been intending on writing this is one that should have been written a week ago. I want to let you guys know that I am holding steady with the fast and still not having sex what I am writting happened the week before the fast.
Me and Ms Chocolate orgasm were playing after a foursome we had. I need to write about that to. Yes I know I am behind.
Anyway, we said goodbye to the couple that came to hang out with us. Then we relaxed on the bed for a few minutes and then went back at it. After she came a few times we were laying with each other and I started to caress her ass. Ms Chocolate Orgasm has a nice ass. While I was caressing it, I started to bite on it lightly. She was responding to my bites kind of interestingly so, I intensified the pressure of the bite.
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February 8, 2006
There are a couple of things I would like to pass on to those of you that are in the car buying market. We all eventually end up having to buy a car so these are some tips for everybody. Hopefully these tips and definitions will be beneficial to you or anyone you know that is purchasing a vehicle. If you have any other questions about the car buying process leave a comment and I will try to answer to the best of my ability.
1. Educate yourself about the car you are buying. If you want to get a good deal on a car that’s the first step. Utilize the internet. Go to sites like cars.com and do a search of the area for the vehicle you are interested in purchasing. The site will pull up cars in the area and you can get a good idea of what the market is asking.
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January 23, 2006
This is a teaser entry. I am backed up on entries I have to finish writing. But, this is a teaser because I just had to write something about a wonderful encounter I had on Friday night. I will write the complete story hopefully tomorrow night.
Me and a young lady I met about a month ago finally got a chance to have a little fun in the bedroom. There was big anticipation of the encounter like the Super Bowl or something.
She has been reading the blog since we met so she had some high expectations.
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December 6, 2005
Note: I started writing this about a week ago and just finished up 12/6.
I know you guys are probably like damn, this fool was just all somber about his grandfather now he is talking about anal slut. lol Yea I know, but you can’t dwell on hard times. Besides thanks to all the prayers and well wishes my grandfather had a good day today. He isn’t out of the woods, but better. Thanks everybody. Now on to the show. lol
I had been so horny all week. A brother was getting backed up. Ms Les popped on line (her timing is great lol) so I said hello and told her how I was feeling. She suggested that I should come over, I told her that I should but the way I was feeling I may not last very long. We agreed on a time anyway and I headed her way.
On my way over, I had in my mind this wasn’t going to be a friendly visit, this was all about fucking. So, I get there and she meets me at the door in some lace panties and a lace top. We exchanged hellos and went straight to the bedroom. I think I smacked her on the ass twice before we even got there.
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November 12, 2005
Well, this was a couple of weeks in the works. Schedules prevented this one from happening sooner, but Analmazing! the rematch has finally happened. If you didn’t read the first one, you need to check it out.
Me and Ms Les have been dying to get back at each other so we made it happen tonight. It was worth the wait. We started off having a couple of drinks and shooting the shit. We went to her bedroom and she pulled up a couple of porns on her computer. Damn, guess I am not the only one with a porn collection on my hard drive. Anybody know how to save them so they can be played on a DVD player? Sorry, I digress.
As the porn started, I stood up at the foot of the bed and told her to come to me. I told her to take off her clothes and after she did, I stood behind her and started playing with her breast and kissing her neck. After a little kissing and caressing I made her get to her knees and I unzipped my pants. She pulled out my dick and started sucking it. We had a conversation before and she told me that she had never been face fucked. Well, we took care of that tonight. She was sucking my dick and stroking it with one hand. I removed her hand from my dick and made her put both of them on the bed behind her. I grabbed the back of her head and started fucking her mouth like it was a pussy. Sometimes I would hold her head down on the dick to see how deep it would go. She couldn’t seem to relax the back of her throat, so I was only able to get a little more than halfway into her mouth.
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October 16, 2005
I was chilling thinking about some of the things I like sexually. And it was interesting that some of the things that seem to really turn me on are things that are considered to be nasty. Now let me get this clear from the start. I don’t mean unclean nasty or you have a nasty demeanor.
Like the old saying that has been used to death; lady in the street freak in the bed. Some of the things that are considered nasty are mainly things that are taboo. I think that is part of the turn on for me, that it isn’t regular everyday vanilla sex. Now some of these things some women have no problem with, but some people will be like girl you nasty. lol And I don’t mean the things that are really really out there.
1. I love it when a woman lets me cum in her mouth.
2. I love to cum on a woman’s face.
3. Having anal sex is somewhat taboo, but when you say I really want to fuck her in the ass, sounds so nasty. lol But oh so good.
4. A woman squirting is a huge turn on to me.
5. I have only done this once, but actually cumming in a woman’s ass is a huge turn on.
6. When a woman is talking nasty and is like fuck the shit out of me. Treat me like your ho. Also when a woman talks or is loud that is a turn on.
7. A woman licking a guy’s ass. I have only did that once and it didn’t do much for me. Not to mention the female had my ass in the buck and I felt like a little bitch. lol
8. There are some women that like to be just down right degraded when they are fucked. Every blue moon that is cool, but I cant get with that on a regular.
9. Something about making a woman gag on my dick turns me on at times. I don’t do it all the time, but i love seeing a woman trying to get it all in. I know there are some deep throat artist out there.
Am I just having a freaky good man moment or do any of you get turned on by being “nasty”? What “nasty” things turn you on sexually? Now I have a disclaimer here, I DO NOT want to hear about anything dealing with blood, under age kids, toilet related thoughts or anything along those lines. Thanks in advance.
Not sure if the choking thing is nasty, probably not, but I am looking for a volunteer to go down that road with.
Ms Sub said she wasn’t ready for that.
October 8, 2005
Ok, it’s 4:08 am as I start to write this and I have to be at the new job at 9. When I came home today I was tired from a week where I had not gone to bed like normal people do with normal working hours. I stayed my ass up to at least 2 am every night this week like I am still making my own hours. So needless to say, I didn’t plan on doing much this Friday night. . Not to mention I had a couple of drinks. I even told someone that I was laying low.
As I was browsing the net minding my own business, someone popped up on my IM that I hadn’t talked to in awhile. We will call her Ms Les. Ms Les is a self professed lesbian that openly admits she likes dick on occasion. When we met she made it perfectly clear that she couldn’t have a committed relationship with a man, because she had to have some pussy. On the other hand she felt very comfortable being able to commit and be in a relationship with a woman.
When we met she had just gotten out of a rough relationship with a female police officer. I was attracted to her, but not really. It was something there that wasn’t clicking. So, we never really followed up with each other except the occasional hello on IM. I think I had sent her an invite to the last party I went to, but she didn’t make it. Oh, she used to be a skripper. lol She isn’t in top flight skripper form, but you can see where she probably did well working that pole.
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October 5, 2005
lol, ok. I am in an exhibitionist mood today. So, I am being bad. This entry is for the ladies only. There have been a few request to see the YM. Well, any female that wants to take a innocent peek of the infamous YM to see what Ms sub is talking about, maybe she doesn’t know a good dick when she sees, sucks and feels one. lol Leave an email address and I will shoot you an invite to a yahoo photo album. Your photos will include tape measure pics of circumference and length. In addition a couple regular shots. lol Now keep in mind I never said I had a huge dick, but it’s very serviceable.
I did an online survey about 2 years ago. The survey asked the question what size dick would you prefer if you had to choose one or the other. Average thickness with above average length or Above average thickness with average length.
Leave in the comment section which you would prefer between the two and feel free to explain why if you like. I will share the results of the survey once I get a few responses in the comment section. The survey I did had over 1,000 female responses.
This is a limited showing for a day or two or until my exhibitionist streak goes away. lol For all the Holy rollers and those that feel that the family jewels shouldn’t be seen. Or the comment I love, something should be left to the imagination. Relax, a brother just having a little fun, its not that serious.
FYI, when you put your email address in the comment it does not show up so everyone can see it. Put your name or make up one in the name area and then put in your email address. Only the name will show up in comment not both. I get the email address sent when I get the comment alert that I have a message.
October 3, 2005
I was BSing around reading some of my old entries and one of the stories triggered a memory of a situation that happened to me about 3 years ago.
Now this is one of those, I don’t believe that shit stories that frankly if it hadn’t happen to me I wouldn’t believe it. But, all I can say is that it’s so true.
I don’t remember if this was the Montreaux Music Festival or the Atlanta Jazz Festival. I remember it was mid to late summer and it was at Piedmont park. For those not familiar with Atlanta. Piedmont Park is a huge park in downtown (mid-town) Atlanta. They have a lot of major events there. Me and my boy (HD, the one I found out was on the DL) headed down there and met up with a couple of other people. The other people we met up with were doing the family thing. So we decide to walk around and check out the crowd.
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