Unfortunately I have neglected this poor little section of the blog. But, I am going to see if I can add more to it. I was just asked a question that I had to post here. I hope that it is helpful and makes sense. If anybody has any follow up questions feel free to ask.
I have a quick question on giving oral sex on a man. How do you know if you are doing it correctly? Never had any complaints before but just want to make sure. Thank you.
The sure fire way to know if you are doing it right is if a guy is telling you to hold up he doesn’t want to cum too quick. Say if you are giving oral as foreplay and he is telling you to hold on or stop, you know you are doing your job. If a guy is really trying to have sex with you, he is not trying to come before he is able to get into the pussy. If he is just trying to get a quick nut, that is a totally different story. It is unfortunately that a lot of people have no idea if what they are doing is good or bad. People don’t want to hurt feelings or feel that if they say something they may not get to do it again. Communication is key for great sex. It’s not all about you just being this great lover and knowing how to please your partner in every facet as soon as you meet them.
One of the things that I think a lot of people miss when doing oral is trying to do too much. At the start of giving oral sex its ok to do different things. When I say different things, i mean different techniques. Stroking the dick differently from fast to slow, griping it harder or softer. Sucking the dick deep or just taking the head in. But, when it comes to pleasing your partner and getting them to have an orgasm. Consistency is the key. Sometimes depending on the person it may take longer than others, but once you get into a good rhythm of sucking and stroking stay with it. It will pay off with an orgasm. A lot of time women can change up what they are doing right at the moment of orgasm and it actually prolongs the experience because the guy loses the feeling of about to cum and it has to build back up.
The exact same can be said when a woman is receiving oral from a guy. Think of times when you were close to having an orgasm and the guy got tired or stopped for some reason when you were just about to orgasm. The same thing applies when you change your technique. While giving oral to a man.
The last thing I will tell you and I do this when I am giving oral to a woman, but I look for this from her clit. There are different levels of hardness when you feel the dick going from hard to real hard in your mouth thats the time to keep doing what you are doing at all cost. That is not the time to get cute and try something else unless you are trying to prolong the experience and not ready for the guy to cum yet. The dick will always be a dead give away of when he is close to coming, it will be at its most hardest point when its ready to cum.
Let me know if that helps or makes sense.