Ok, I have been a guy that prides himself on having orgasm control. In particularly holding off cumming during the initial 10 mins when its really feeling great. The flip side of this is that once I hold off the orgasm it not easy to orgasm on command or exactly when I want to. Now this has never been a real issue, most women appreciate a guy that is not a minute man. I did have an ex that told me after about 6 mins of sex she was good. She told me this after we had been together for awhile and never requested we shorten the sex, she just said that after about 6 mins. the other was extra.
For those of you that have read my blog for awhile also know that I am very competitive and have been known to count the number of orgasms. To me that is a way to kind of keep score. Most women don’t get it, but I am goal oriented and as I said competitive. So for me, I like being able to have goals to shoot for or even records to break. lol It’s really a man thing, so don’t shoot me. 
My question is, how long is enough for sex? Or does it even matter? Are you ok as long as you have at least one orgasm? I know most women are going to say, I don’t look at my watch or time it. I do get that, but in general terms what does it take to make it a satisfying experience?