Freaky Good Man

One of the things that can mess you up when you date is finding someone that you are attracted to and even have the same freaky likes, but you simply like the things that please you done to you differently than they do it. It sucks, but everybody has preferences and likes to receive pleasure in their on way.

I met a real cool female that had a lot of the same likes as I had. When we started cuddling everything was great and she felt great in my arms. We had long passionate kisses and just had some real good foreplay. But when it came for me to eat her pussy, I fucking swung and missed (that’s a baseball reference since the season started lol). Now, she told me when we were talking that she has always been hard to please orally and she would have to tell guys what to do. I am pretty confident with my skills so I was not sweating the shit at all.

I have a sucking and licking technique that I use that usually gets rave reviews. One female described the way I eat pussy like it was me french kissing her pussy. I love the way that sounds, but I don’t think that truly explains how I do it. I usually start off just using the tongue to get the kitty wet and warmed up. Then I start sucking and licking the clit at the same time. The sucking motion keeps the clit engorged and then the tongue massages the clit but it’s a simultaneous one - two punch. I typically will vary the licking motion and see what tongue motion gives me the best response then I try to stick with it. As I feel the clit getting harder I will sometimes suck a little harder cause I have found that once the clit gets really hard the woman is about to cum.

For visualization purpose to help everybody get it. Its like when a woman sucks a dick and she can feel the guy’s dick get a bit harder right as he is about to cum.

Now I will also use some variation and just lick around the clit or use my tongue to tongue fuck the pussy by sticking my tongue as deep as I can into her pussy. Two of the things I do that make women cum the hardest is when I finger her pussy as I am eating her. Normally I use two fingers and use a variation of speed and depth to find what she responds to the best. Then the kill move is to massage her g-spot will sucking / licking her clit. I have had a woman cum 30 seconds non stop like that once. Was hot as hell. It probably could have lasted longer, but I thought her ass may pass out. lol

The other thing that has always gotten good grades is me licking / sucking the clit while fingering the woman’s ass. The wild thing that I like about that is that you can actually feel the woman’s nerves and muscles in her ass going crazy right before and as she is cumming. Now to take that up one more level one of my favorites is using a silver bullet in the woman’s ass while you are eating her. The silver bullet is relatively small in size and usually isn’t going to be intimidating even for a woman that doesn’t like anal. From the woman’s perspective, she has this bullet in her ass vibrating like crazy and you are using your tongue to work on her clit at the same time. Big time orgasms.

Now that’s how I roll when showing the kitty some love, but that shit was a no go with this female. All she wanted was just straight licking. The sucking didn’t do it for her. I tried to shift gears and just lick her, but I could never find the right connection that was doing it for her. I love stepping my game up and being able to please in another way, but I couldn’t get the job done orally that night. I did tell her I was willing to put in some extra practice time in to get me a new technique just for her.

Now I recognize that to be a true master at making the kitty cum you have to be willing to stay down for a minute. In fact, I have gotten to recognize the difference between a woman that masturbates a lot from a woman that doesn’t just by eating her pussy.

Women that masturbate a lot will get close as hell to cumming when you are eating her (or fucking for that matter), but if you move one fucking millimeter or change your motion just a tad, she will lose it and you have to start all the way back over building her orgasm up. Those women have gotten so use to the way they please themselves that it can be a challenge if you are not paying attention to the signs her body is telling you. It’s actually pretty simple. When she is pleasing herself she can feel what touch is making her feel good. So if she can feel it she is able to keep touching that spot and doing it exactly how it needs to be done to orgasm. Her lover has to be able to recognize those same body signs, but somewhat blindly because they obviously can’t feel what she is feeling.

In an attempt to add technique to my own skills and help others out as well, how do you like to have your pussy ate? And if it can help somebody out, what don’t you like when getting your pussy ate? Don’t be shy with your comments, this shit may save the world one good head job at a time! lmao

Now I didn’t share all of my personal moves, but I am curious if some of you will mention a couple of the other thins I like to do.

As a bonus, here are a couple of my favorite entries about oral sex:

1. Oral Delight - This was an experience with me and my sub at the time. We had a “vanilla” non - D/s experience that was all about oral.

2. A woman’s perspective on receiving oral from me - This was actually written by my sub but was a different experience from the one above. It’s real cool to hear it come from the other perspective.

3. Getting Head at Happy Hour - Ok, this one is about me receiving oral sex and to giving it this time. This was a funny as story.