I had two situations in the last two weeks where it seems to me that the women are straight running scared. Read both situations and tell me what you think.
Situation #1
There is a young lady that had been reading my blog for a long time. We communicated via notes on BP for a minute and after several months we started talking on the phone. It was never anything serious, just a hi how you doing and checking on each other every so often. We had thrown around meeting to say hello before but never did, until a week ago when I was coming home from work and felt like having a drink. I gave her a call and she was down so we met. We had something to eat and watched the game.
Everything was cool, convo was good, we joked around and we were like good friends enjoying a night out. I decide to invite her back to my place for a drink and to watch the rest of the game. To my surprise she agreed and we headed to my place.
We get to my place, check out the game and relax. Earlier in the night she had told me that she wasn’t able to down load the porns I had posted on the site under the entry “My Gift to You”. So I pulled up the laptop and showed her a couple of the porns.
As I showed her the porns we get a little cozy with each other. My dick got hard, so I grabbed her hand and put it on my hardness. She is like, oh so this is the YM. After we laughed about it for a second I pulled out my dick and let her stroke it. After she stroked it for a while we began to kiss and I played with her breast. When it gets hot and heavy, she tells me that she can’t do it, because she has a boyfriend. I am like I won’t tell him if you don’t. lol After talking a little we move on.
She was nervous as hell, but eventually relaxed. She had a fat ass clit and the pussy tasted great. I really enjoyed eating her. We fucked in a few positions, but she wanted to lay down on her stomach and have me enter her from the back. She said she licked to control the dick that way. She started working her pussy by pushing back up against me and squeezed on the way down. That felt great and her pussy got very very wet. Anyway, this isn’t really about the sex this time. But, I had to set the tone a little.
Afterwards, she kept saying “amazing”. lol I asked her why she said that. She was like I can’t believe you found my spot like that. She said: ” It’s usually hard for me to cum once, and you made me cum 3 times”. Of course in my mind, 3 times is ok, but whatever works. lol I told her that if she would have relaxed she would have easily cum more than that, but you gotta work with what you got.
We shoot the shit for a while and cuddle a little bit catching the end of the second game. I get horny again and want to go for round two. She literally runs from me and says “No, you not going to have me sprung over here knocking on your door.” So, I bust out laughing, but she is serious and won’t go for round two. Anyway, we relax a little bit and she heads home because she has to get up early in the morning.
This is where it all gets interesting. She calls me and lets me know that she made it home safely. After that I haven’t heard a word from her. Not one word. I called her the next day to see how the event she had to get up for went and if she made it on a few hours rest. I have called her a few times to see what’s up. I have shot her an email. Not one reply.
We were cool from the start, even when we were just sending emails to each other. I didn’t try to change anything. I thought we had a cool night and that was that. I know she has a man, but I wasn’t trying to change that either.
Based on her nervousness meeting me and how she was nervous during sex. My opinion is that she is running from the situation because she doesn’t know what to think and because she has a boyfriend. Now in my mind, I honestly don’t care if we don’t have sex again, but we have always had fun talking and it was fun hanging out. Why run from that?
Am I wrong thinking that she is running scared? Is it not reasonable to expect a phone call or some type of communication?


Do you always have the porns going when you have sex at your place?Just wondering.lol
Comment by Anonymous — May 15, 2006 @ 3:46 pm
Not all the time. In fact before I had my lap top I didn’t play them much at all during sex. My porn collection is on my laptop now, but use to be on my desk top in my office down stairs. The porns are more readily accessible now. I use to just turn on some good music and do my thing. But, Ms Les always turned on porns and Ms Chocolate Orgasm would put them on sometimes as well. It was cool when they did it so,I started doing it. That’s something pretty recent that I have gotten into.
Comment by freakygoodman — May 15, 2006 @ 4:03 pm
I think she is running scared for a few reasons. She can’t seperate the act from the emotions. She was being honest; she feels like she would get hooked. Secondly, she might feel guilty for not being able to see it for what it was. Lastly, she might have a guilty conscience because of boyfriend and feeling low self esteem for allowing herself to do this. So the best way to fix that is quit cold turkey! Not that I would know or anything.
Comment by K Boogie — May 15, 2006 @ 9:56 pm
I agree with K Boogie - it was probably more guilt than anything. Don’t take it personally.
Comment by Ms. Chocolate Orgasms — May 15, 2006 @ 11:11 pm
FIRST OF ALL GET OVER YOUR EGO, THE BITCH WAS MARRIED AND SHE WOOED YOU YOU GOT PLAYED AND THAT IS WHAT MOST MEN DO TO SOME UNSUSPECTING WOMAN, I KNOW BECAUSE THAT SAME SCENARIO HAS HAPPENED TO ME ABOUT 15 YEARS AGO, BUT INSTEAD WE HUNG OUT TALKED HAD FUN, TREATED ME LIKE A QUEEN WE WENT TO THE BIG APPLE, AND AFTER A FEW MONTHS WE FUCKED AND HE BOUNCED. SO A WORD TO THE WISE MEN AND WOMEN CAN PLAY YOU JUST HAVE TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND STOPP TRYING TO FIGURE WOMAN OUT BECAUSE THEY WILL 0UT WIT YOU EVERY TIME. MOST PEOPLE ARE NOT FULL OF INTEGRITY THEY ARE FULL OF THAT BULLSHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Comment by DENISE — August 20, 2008 @ 8:10 pm
Denise, not sure who you are but you clearly don’t have good reading comprehension. Just because some shit happen to you doesn’t make it the same for everybody. This chic wasn’t married. I know that 100%. How in the hell did I get played? I wasn’t trying to marry or date this woman. So, I got played how? I appreciate you checking out my blog, but it’s like you are one of those people that talks loud, but really not saying anything.
Comment by freakygoodman — October 3, 2008 @ 3:55 am