I had a request from two readers to address the issue of cumming in a woman’s mouth and swallowing. Here are the actual questions: Reader 1 (this is in response to a portion of your 8/5 blog)
PAH-LEEEEEZ respond to this w/a post - I’m sure you have plenty of female readers who’d like an answer here: what in the world is a man’s fascination with ejaculating in your partner’s mouth? What’s the turn on?
yeah, and swallowing, too. What up with dat? My man wants me to swallow. Jus caint do dat. He said it makes him feel like I’m accepting all of him.
Well ladies I will do my best to shed some light on this wonderful topic. The shit feels good. THE END. lol
A good deal of the cumming in the mouth is that it illicits a naughty / nasty girl thought. I don’t care what your man says, he always wants his lady to have some naughtiness in her. Now of course there are always exceptions to the rule, but most guys want the girl or the wifey that is willing to do more than the norm. Cumming in a woman’s mouth is almost as taboo as anal sex. It’s not the same but close. With it being taboo, it just adds to the eroticness of it.
It’s also about visualization. When a woman is giving you head, the visual is a big turn on. Then the icing on the cake is that when you are cumming you can look down and see that dick in her mouth knowing she is taking your cum in, its just a turn on. Knowing she is taking your juices.
Then of course you have the most important thing. It really does feel good. When the woman sucks the dick and continues to stroke and suck as you are cumming to get every last drop out. It feels wonderful. It’s like damn baby get all of that shit out of that dick. It just feels so damn good (lol can u tell?). When a woman sucks you and you pull out of her mouth and cum on her, it feels good because you had an orgasm. But, to have her continue to suck just takes it to another level.
It’s like when women have a different levels of intensity with orgasms. Sometimes you cum and then sometimes you fucking have an explosive orgasm. Cumming in the mouth takes it up one level. For the three reasons I mentioned above. In addition, for me as a single man that uses condoms, being able to cum in the woman’s mouth and not in the condom or pulling out feels almost like fucking without a condom. We all know that fucking bare back is better than with a condom. But, you have to do what you have to do and keep the pickle covered.
Now the second part of the question by reader 2, in my opinion is more selfish than anything. For me once I cum in a woman’s mouth, the cum is hers. She can do with it what she wants to. She can spit it out or she can swallow it. It really doesn’t matter to me. Now, mentally it has that nasty girl effect if the woman swallows. But, after you cum it doesn’t do anything to the guy for her to swallow the cum. It’s strictly mental; that damn she is taking my cum. And let me clarify, when I say nasty girl or naughty I truly do not mean that in a bad way. But, for me it doesn’t matter if the woman actually swallows. However, if she lets me cum in her mouth and puts on a theatrical show afterwards, like a kid eating broccoli or something. It’s a big turn off.
Hope this helped ladies.