I had a request from two readers to address the issue of cumming in a woman’s mouth and swallowing. Here are the actual questions: Reader 1 (this is in response to a portion of your 8/5 blog)
PAH-LEEEEEZ respond to this w/a post - I’m sure you have plenty of female readers who’d like an answer here: what in the world is a man’s fascination with ejaculating in your partner’s mouth? What’s the turn on?
Reader 2:
yeah, and swallowing, too. What up with dat? My man wants me to swallow. Jus caint do dat. He said it makes him feel like I’m accepting all of him.
Well ladies I will do my best to shed some light on this wonderful topic. The shit feels good. THE END. lol
A good deal of the cumming in the mouth is that it illicits a naughty / nasty girl thought. I don’t care what your man says, he always wants his lady to have some naughtiness in her. Now of course there are always exceptions to the rule, but most guys want the girl or the wifey that is willing to do more than the norm. Cumming in a woman’s mouth is almost as taboo as anal sex. It’s not the same but close. With it being taboo, it just adds to the eroticness of it.
It’s also about visualization. When a woman is giving you head, the visual is a big turn on. Then the icing on the cake is that when you are cumming you can look down and see that dick in her mouth knowing she is taking your cum in, its just a turn on. Knowing she is taking your juices.
Then of course you have the most important thing. It really does feel good. When the woman sucks the dick and continues to stroke and suck as you are cumming to get every last drop out. It feels wonderful. It’s like damn baby get all of that shit out of that dick. It just feels so damn good (lol can u tell?). When a woman sucks you and you pull out of her mouth and cum on her, it feels good because you had an orgasm. But, to have her continue to suck just takes it to another level.
It’s like when women have a different levels of intensity with orgasms. Sometimes you cum and then sometimes you fucking have an explosive orgasm. Cumming in the mouth takes it up one level. For the three reasons I mentioned above. In addition, for me as a single man that uses condoms, being able to cum in the woman’s mouth and not in the condom or pulling out feels almost like fucking without a condom. We all know that fucking bare back is better than with a condom. But, you have to do what you have to do and keep the pickle covered.
Now the second part of the question by reader 2, in my opinion is more selfish than anything. For me once I cum in a woman’s mouth, the cum is hers. She can do with it what she wants to. She can spit it out or she can swallow it. It really doesn’t matter to me. Now, mentally it has that nasty girl effect if the woman swallows. But, after you cum it doesn’t do anything to the guy for her to swallow the cum. It’s strictly mental; that damn she is taking my cum. And let me clarify, when I say nasty girl or naughty I truly do not mean that in a bad way. But, for me it doesn’t matter if the woman actually swallows. However, if she lets me cum in her mouth and puts on a theatrical show afterwards, like a kid eating broccoli or something. It’s a big turn off.
Hope this helped ladies.
ok, so how would you feel/react/respond if the chick you were eating SQUIRTED smack dead in your face/mouth (I’m referring to the fluid burst from a woman when you REALLY eat it right)? Would you enjoy her explosion and just take it in your mouth as the “icing on the cake”? How about swallowin that?
BTW: A friend of mine told me to check out your blogs. Brotha, you should be gettin PAID for these here memoirs of yours! Whew, if I was only in Atlanta….
August 09, 2005 11:48 PM
Comment by Anonymous — September 12, 2005 @ 8:48 pm
Well, I think I really eat pussy right (I have references lol) and have never had a woman to squirt from oral. I have had two different women to squirt from penetration. One was an ex who use to do it quite often. Although she would try to hold back because she said it drained her too much when she squirted.
I am a freaky MF if a woman squirted while I was eating her. I wouldn’t care if she did it in my mouth. Although my experience is that when a woman squirts its a hell of a lot more than when a man cums. So not sure if that could all be taken in. It also tends to be all over the place and would probably be hard to get all of it anyway. Other than that, I am down.
As far as the gettin paid for the writting part. I keep getting people telling me that. So, we will see.
August 09, 2005 11:59 PM
Comment by Freaky Good Man — September 12, 2005 @ 8:48 pm
I say to each his or her own,but this is not something that you can or rather should do with any and everyone that you meet in my opinion.If your not in an exclusive relationship it wont matter whether you utilize condoms or not ,because if she or he has something (disease wise) you will have eaten it,making condom pointless!lmao
September 02, 2005 8:05 PM
Comment by Anonymous — September 12, 2005 @ 8:49 pm
I agree with the anonymous posted message. You should definitely consider getting paid for your writings. I would definitely buy an autograph copy…lol of your book. In regards to your posted memoir, the cumming and swallowing thing should be a personal preference.
Comment by Lady — September 14, 2005 @ 10:58 pm
I ALWAYS WANTED TO KNOW WHAT THE FASINATION WITH THAT WAS. THANKS FOR THAT INFO.
Comment by LA.SPARKS — March 7, 2007 @ 3:00 pm
Im really upset my girl wont let me cum in her mouth, she wont even try… I really like her, but its almost enough to turn me away! Does anyone else feel like this?? Is there some sort of compromise i havn’t thought of lol ??
Comment by cam — April 2, 2008 @ 4:27 am
i say guide hger to this page and have her read up. maybe she’ll feel better and it can spark an adult conversation between the two of you. it sure helped me out.
Comment by strong woman — November 28, 2008 @ 8:43 pm
It’s kind of crazy, but me and my ex still get together just for this….. I love sucking his dick. He has the best dick and he loves what i do. We both know that it would have never worked relationship wise for us, but sexually (oral)we have a great connection. It is also crazy, but I can cum over and over doing it… He has the most amazing look on his face and says the most amazing things to me that it makes me feel so sexy.
I love the way he grabs my hair and pushes my head just a little bit… don’t push too hard, but a little makes it just so naughty… we can do this for over an hour… when he is about to cum i can tell, and i stop and say, “make sure you watch me while you cum in my mouth”. This makes him cum even harder… he holds my chin up and looks down at me while I can feel his throbbing dick in my mouth while he is cumming. I do swallow but only with him and only because I know he loves it. It is such a mind blowing moment that sometimes we do it all over again in about 10 minutes. He’s kind of like you… able to get the dick hard and ready over again.
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