Freaky Good Man

What’s up people. Been a little busy and need to catch up with the blog. The last time I posted was getting ready to enjoy my B-day week. So here is a quick update on what I did.

My b-day was Monday the 27th.

Sunday 26th - A good friend and business associate came to town so we had drinks Sunday night. Craig is a white guy from the UK, so I brought in my b-day at midnight laughing, drinking Jack and Coke and hearing this dude say “mate” every other sentence.

Monday 27th - Slept in that day as I had been on the road to Mississippi Friday and Saturday for business. That night my mom took me to dinner for my favorite dinner a nice juicy steak and baked potato. She was kind enough to let us sit at the bar to watch the NBA playoffs as well. This old drunk white guy sat next to us and talked us to death, but he was pretty funny and bought me a b-day drink.

Tuesday 28th - Slept in again. lol Hey it’s my b-day week. Went over to my grandparents house where my uncle cooked one of my other favorites - ribs. They had me a half slab of ribs ready for me when I got there. They were so damn good. My uncle can throw down on the grill and in the kitchen.

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For those that don’ know, I am a Morehouse Alum. I love my alma mater dearly and when I heard this news I had to spread the word. For the record, Dr. Massey is also a graduate of Morehouse, he wasn’t just the past President he was a product of the school itself. This is a HUGE deal. To be Chairman of one of the largest banks in the world even in these economic times wields a lot of power and influence. Here is the article for those that didn’t hear about it. Much love Dear Ole Morehouse!

Morehouse College president emeritus Walter E. Massey has been named chairman of Bank of America, the nation’s second largest commercial bank.

The announcement came Wednesday after shareholders voted to create an independent chairman, ousting former chair Ken Lewis and leaving him as president and chief executive officer.

Massey, 71, was president of the Atlanta-based college from August 1995 to June 2007, and was a director on the BankAmerica Corp. board from 1993 to 1998.

His ascension to Bank of America’s chair came as Lewis’ responsibilities were reduced by a slim margin by the board. The vote was 50.3 percent in favor of creating the new independent chair, with 49.7 percent opposed, bank officials said.

Massey wasn’t immediately available for comment.

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I was on one of my favorite message boards and a guy asked the question: Could you marry a chic that doesn’t swallow?

The responses were pretty varied and some were a bit sad.

75% of the guys said it didn’t matter.
25% said they would end it.

In my mind, I think it’s crazy that something like that would determine if you would marry a person or not. I tell any woman, that if a guy says he doesn’t want to be with you because of something like that, he isn’t the type of guy you need in your life. As most of you know, sex is important to me and I think it is fantastic. The reality is that it takes more than sex to have a great relationship and it surely takes more than one sex act to make sex bad.

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Ok, this is a bit different. A guy posted this on a message board I check out from time to time and I thought this was a very entertaining. The guy swears it’s a true story. It’s worth the read.

AZ the Aziatic blares in the speakers. “You know the story how the thugs live and worry/ Ducked down in car seats, heats mandatory.” As I pull out of parking lot of the Smoove and turn right I think back to the last time I was in this area two days ago. The street was cordoned off with police tape because of an incident where a police cruiser crashed into another vehicle. I took a detour upon seeing flashing lights fearing that all the commotion was a random sobriety checkpoint. My head was much clearer this time as I accelerated to 40 mph and cranked the volume to its max level. I had left the club early after texting my favorite dancer and learning that she was working downtown at Magic City. I didn’t feel like making the drive and decided to resort to plan B. Plan B was a ho that advertised her services on a local chat line that I contacted earlier in the day. I always felt a little uncomfortable about not being in control of the situation when I went to a Shorty’s crib for an incall and this particular one had my spidey senses tingling. Oh well, if some grimey shit goes down then I probably deserve it I think and laugh to myself. I’ve been struggling with my addiction to hoes and strippers for some time. I used to keep track of how much money I wasted on the services of women from Amsterdam to Argentina but had long lost count. Every man has his vice, for some it is alcohol, crack, or gambling. My Achillies heel had always been pussy for sell. This is the last time I tell myself for the thousandth time and re-focus.

As I pull up to the apartment building I pull out my page plus phone purchased for instances when I don’t desire my primary cell number to be exchanged. I had learned my lesson in the past and now each of my alter-egos possesses his own cell phone number and e-mail address. My impending sense of discomfort grows slightly as she tells me that she will be down shortly with a friend. I briefly contemplate pulling off, that is until I see her friend. Damn, I think to myself, this bitch is built like a brick shithouse. My original contact had proven to be disappointing however, it was obvious that she had lied about her age, body dimensions and overall appearance. As I walk up the stairs and make small talk I observe my surroundings for potential set-ups, law enforcement activity and an egress route all the while trying to determine whether or not “friend with ass” would be down for my soon to come indecent proposal. The ideal scenario would involve ugly hoe understanding that she was not what I was looking for and accepting a small amount of cash to just shut up and chill out while it went down with her girl. Tonight was not ideal and the best I could manage was talking ugly girl into a threesome. Oh well, she wanted her cash and I wanted friend with ass. It was her place and her share was less than taking friend with ass to a hotel room so money was exchanged and clothes started to drop. Thats when the phone rang.

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Please take a look at this video. It touches on what I think is one of the biggest issues with black America right now. Black men and women are taking a stance against each other that is only making the black community weaker. I will post my thoughts of the video below, but I ask you to take a look at it as well and share what you think.

I honestly don’t know where to start with this video. The male voice over in the video basically threw black women under the bus. At the end of the video the blonde haired black female basically said it was a wrap in her trying to date black men.

The unfortunate thing that I see in all of this is at some point black men and women have become enemies to each other. We no longer are on the same team and no longer support each other. We have all taken what white America says about us and have internalized it and know spew the hate towards our own. How in the hell did we allow this to happen?

This is the reality as I see it. White women complain about dating as well as black women. White men and black men can’t complain about it as much because it makes them look like they are whinning. So you mostly hear about women complaining about dating. As the old saying goes, the squeaky wheel gets the oil. Dating and finding the right person is not a race issue. It is a people issue. It is difficult for everyone to find “the one” regardless of race or gender. We always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.

If we continue to go down this road of blamng each other, the black community is in for bleak times.

Just a quick note: To the male voice over guy. Oprah was approached and dated a white man. Ebert of Siskel and Ebert movie critics actually dated Oprah before she went syndicated. My guess is that there are probably a few more.

I have some fun friends that can get into as much shit as I do. My good friend Cali Girl and I have always shared with each other our different sexual experiences with each other. We pretty much talk about any and everything.

Last night we were chatting and she shared with me how she had a wonderful experience with one of her regular friends. The experience was such a turn on I decided to share it with you, with her permission of course. The conversation was done via IM, so I am going to copy and paste the adventure in her uncensored words. Along with a couple of questions I asked just to plug in some holes that I was missing when she told me. Hope you enjoy. If you do, give Cali Girl a shout out, because she is a BEAST!

A little background on the story so it’s easy to follow and makes more sense. Cali Girl had been in a little drought and was looking forward to a trip home to get laid by a guy she had hit it off with before she moved. The wonderful catch is that this guy we will call Jim was introduced to Cali Girl by Randy who likes Cali Girl, but is not very good in bed. If I remember correctly, they had a foursome and Cali Girl really enjoyed Jim’s dick. He has a big dick and apparently is a bit aggressive / Dominant which usually really turns Cali Girl on. After the foursome Cali Girl and Jim hooked up a few times solo, but Randy kinda sorta knew about it. lol So keep in mind that Jim and Randy are boys and there is some previous history with the 3 of them.

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I haven’t done an entry like this in a minute. I think this is number 4, but maybe not. I might go back and double check, but here goes anyway. This is what I call a brain dump of some of the shit that is in my head lately from a sexual stand point. Things that I have been visualizing to do or things that have been in my head that are just big turn ons right now.

1. I have really been thinking about me and a bi female friend getting together and finding us a submissive bi female to join us for a Dom / sub session. Me and the friend would Dominate the female and have her to do as she is told, as we use her for our and ultimately her own pleasure. Some role play, light bondage, toys and all kinds of wonderful fun things. I would even like for me and the friend to do a DP (double penetration) on the female. Of course with the female friend wearing a strap on and we both enter the sub.

2. I would really like for me and a female friend to pick up a woman at a bar or just out and about. Meaning, I would like for both of us to approach a woman together and we flirt with her to let her know that we are interested in being with her as a couple and then ultimately fuck her together.

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My birthday is coming up in a little over 10 days (April 27th) and I have a few ideas of things that I want to do, but I am not 100% sure yet. The activity that seems to be coming up the most is me making a visit to the swingers club. It has been (as I get my wallet to find my expired membership card to the club) over 2 years since I made that trip. The dilema that this brings up (not really) is who to take. Do I take someone I already know, take someone new that I recently have met and do I take someone who has never been? Some of my most memorable experiences have been with women that are going for the first time. Just seeing their transformation from being nervous as hell when we get there to wanting to know when we can come again at the end of the night is priceless.

I know maybe I should do another first date at the swingers club. lol I know, I will do a FGM blind date swingers club email contest. The woman that catches my attention the most via email can meet me at the club for our first date and we see what happens.

Wow, I just came up with that, that would be hot. My mind sometimes, damn. lol For those that have not read my first swingers club experience it was actually during a first date I was having. It wasn’t planned that way, but that’s where we ended up and had hell of a time.

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One of the things that can mess you up when you date is finding someone that you are attracted to and even have the same freaky likes, but you simply like the things that please you done to you differently than they do it. It sucks, but everybody has preferences and likes to receive pleasure in their on way.

I met a real cool female that had a lot of the same likes as I had. When we started cuddling everything was great and she felt great in my arms. We had long passionate kisses and just had some real good foreplay. But when it came for me to eat her pussy, I fucking swung and missed (that’s a baseball reference since the season started lol). Now, she told me when we were talking that she has always been hard to please orally and she would have to tell guys what to do. I am pretty confident with my skills so I was not sweating the shit at all.

I have a sucking and licking technique that I use that usually gets rave reviews. One female described the way I eat pussy like it was me french kissing her pussy. I love the way that sounds, but I don’t think that truly explains how I do it. I usually start off just using the tongue to get the kitty wet and warmed up. Then I start sucking and licking the clit at the same time. The sucking motion keeps the clit engorged and then the tongue massages the clit but it’s a simultaneous one - two punch. I typically will vary the licking motion and see what tongue motion gives me the best response then I try to stick with it. As I feel the clit getting harder I will sometimes suck a little harder cause I have found that once the clit gets really hard the woman is about to cum.

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Now don’t go share this at bible study, but porn can be very good for your relationship. I know some of you that are really into church right now are going to say the FGM has lost his damn mind. I have been down the road of celibacy on more than one occasion. I have done it twice; once as a single person and once in a relationship. During that period of time I did not watch any porn and of course no sex. Both times the celibacy period was over a year in length. I am not saying that to say that a year was this ridiculously long time, I know people that are celibate for longer periods of time than that, I am just giving you an idea that it wasn’t just a 30 day thing or just during the 40 days of Lent.

Now during that time of celibacy I focused on my walk and being a better Christian. At the end of the day, I am honestly not sure where that period of celibacy left me or frankly if it was worth it. Now, that is not what this blog is about, so we can table that for another discussion, but what I learned during those times of celibacy was that my sexual imagination was not as vivid as when I didn’t watch porn. Which was a good thing during celibacy, but once I was not celibate it was not so good. I think I have a pretty creative mind when it comes to exploring sexually, so I am not saying that if you don’t watch porn you can’t have a creative sex life.

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It doesn’t seem like it but, I started this blog 4 years ago in February 05’. And over that time, I have met some very nice people via my blog. I have met a few people that I consider true friends that I have met in person. There are some I consider “internet” friends, where there has become regular dialogue and concern for their well being, but have not met in person. As with regular life I have also met some flakey people via the internet and my blog in particular. This entry is about a young lady I met via the blog and how I feel she flaked out on me when we finally met after two years of internet correspondence and a few phone calls.

This person lives on the west coast, so we will call her WCG for West Coast Girl. Please do not confuse this person with Cali Girl. I am not sure exactly how long WCG had been reading my blog. Some people “lurk” in the background for awhile before deciding to be interactive on the blog and leave comments. The first comments I received from WCG lets me know that it had been about 2 years from the time she first appeared on the blog and when we finally met here in Atlanta.

When I first started writing the blog, I would post updates on a BP page that I had created just for the blog. I would invite people to check out the blog on BP and she was one of the people that got an invite. We started communicating on BP and then started chatting on IM. We talked about relationships, life, family and all the regular things that grown people talk about. She shared with me that she really enjoy some of the more sensual parts of what I wrote and even shared my blog with a girlfriend. Some of our discussions got pretty hot and detailed. We seemed to both be attracted and openly flirted with each other. We even discussed having a fun encounter the next time she made it to Atlanta.

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Good first fucks can be hard to come by sometimes. You may like similar things, but you like them done in different ways. So many minor things can make very average sex be great or bad and newness is always a wild card that can fuck things up. But, good first fucks are always memorable.

I met a lil hot Latina mamma a few weeks ago. Had a cool regular first date, but we were both very open about what we enjoyed sexually and I think that translated into a fun first fuck. It was a nice day time adventure where I set some ground rules and she went with it and it turned fabulously.

I told her to come to my crib with a short skirt on and no panties. I also told her that once she came to the door that she could not say one word to me. No hello, how you doing, NOTHING. I emailed her directions to my spot with those detailed directions that women like. You know, you going to turn right at the light where the Chuckie cheese is and then left once you pass two stop signs and a drunk on the corner.lol The only thing about the good directions, I was sure that she would call at least once to make sure she was going the right way and she ended up getting there a few minutes before I was expecting, but everything was cool.

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What’s up folks! I took a short break from writing as I got real busy with my business event in Vegas. The event went well, but no real good stories to share. I didn’t win any money gambling and for the first time visiting there I didn’t get laid. I know, I know, poor me. lol I did get to take my mom on the trip as a graduation / birthday present. My mom went back to school and got her degree and I told her I would bring her to Vegas as her present. She ended up having a great time and won a few hundred dollars on the slot machines. She was also able to hang out with a friend that had recently moved to Vegas. So she had blast and is ready to go back.

Since this trip was a bit boring, I have to share with you what happened last year in Vegas. There are two parts to this story. The story as it was unveiled in front of me and some pieces of the puzzle that were unveiled to me a full year later when I was on my trip to San Diego.

I have two business partners, one here in GA with me that is married and one in Cali that is divorced. When we have traveled before we are normally so busy that we don’t get to do a whole lot of just playing or enjoying the city. My married business partner had always been on his best behavior and had not had any females with him on any of our previous trips. He had not picked up any females while we were in different cities or anything along those lines.

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It has been 2 years since I have been to a swingers club. I think about it from time to time and have some good flashbacks about some of my experiences there. A female I met during the holidays shared with me that she was interested in checking it out, but ended up going with two of her female friends and had a ball. They liked it so much they went 3 times in a two week period.

Hearing some of her experience there has me thinking about making a visit sometime soon. In fact it made me think of a time me and a good friend went. As I have mentioned before, going to a swinger’s club is one of the most freeing experiences you can have and can also be very sensual from an exhibitionist or voyeuristic point of view.

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Will someone please help me understand. I have had a couple of situations where the female I was intimate with was satisfied after having ONE orgasm. I mean just fold up the tent and go home after one damn orgasm. I do not get it and I do not comprehend. The last time it happened the shit really pissed me off.

I had recently met this female and our first intimate encounter was a 3 some with a female friend. The 3 some was pretty cool, but it was more about the ladies. The two of them were really feeling each other so I didn’t get into the mix much, but I did play. The other female I had been with before and while she is probably the most attractive female I have ever been with, I knew she was in the mood for some kitty. The new female was mostly dating women and hadn’t been with a guy in some months. So, again I wasn’t the main course at all, but I was more than happy to be in the mix.

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