Freaky Good Man

My part time hussle I do on the side of my business is officiating youth football. One of the dynamics that has always been interesting to me is the people that coach youth sports, in particularly football.

The first scenario is a catch 22 that happens in hoods all over the country. Now, the youth leagues that I officiate have diverse backgrounds. Some are straight hood and some are from middle class areas. One of the things we always see with some of the hood teams is that there is a fairly large number of the coaches that are dope boys coaching the teams.

The reason this is a catch 22 is that if these guys are not coaching the teams, there may not be anyone else that will step up to take the time and at least attempt to coach these kids. So, I have always given kudos to men that take the time out of their life to help and teach another person’s child all that goes with coaching which includes sportsmanship and some of life’s other lessons.

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This is a story that happened close to my b-day back in April, but I never finished it until now. I think she had just a tad of crazy on her. I met this female at happy hour. Real sexy female that was a nurse and had a cool personality. She is in the process of going through a divorce, she has 3 kids and lives way the fuck in no mans land. Because of the pending divorce, the 3 kids and where she lives, I would not consider her someone I would date long term. Let me clarify. The divorce isn’t a major issue although I would not date someone seriously until they have had time to get over the divorce and the divorce was final. I do know some people have long drawn out divorces, but this didn’t seem to be the case. I don’t have any kids, so a female with 3 kids is too many for me. If a woman has one child, I can get with that. Plus this female said she didn’t want to have any more kids. I still want kids. Anybody that knows Atlanta, knows that people are spread out all over the place. She lives 54 minutes away from me without any traffic.

Anyway, onto the crazy part. We met Thursday night. We hang out for dinner and a movie on Sunday. Everything went well, we laughed a lot and cuddled a little so a good first date. Her kids are with their dad on Monday’s so we decided to have drinks and relax at her house Monday night. All that day on Monday we are texting each other and have some fun exchanges via texts.

I get to her house that night and we have a couple of drinks get to know each other better and relax. The previous night I had put my hand on the back of her neck and she was very tense, so I told her I would give her a massage. That was before we decided to meet the next night, but I came prepared to work on her. She wanted to have her massage in her bedroom. So we get to her bed room and she jumps on the bed and lays on her stomach. I try to work on her back and neck, but she had on a shirt that was getting in the way, not to mention her bra. So, I tell her to take it off and she hesitated, but obliged me. Now she is topless on the bed laying face down and all she has on is these tight ass boy shorts on. She was a little shorty about 5′1″ but had some track like legs that I was loving.

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This is an experience I had this summer. I met this lil cutie that is younger than I usually roll with (she was 25), but it ended up being a cool ass experience. She is a somewhat tall chic about 5′9″, slim to medium build, chocolate complexion, 36 to 38D and some very pretty ass lips.

I picked her up and we went to a lil neighborhood bar where my cousin and a female he was dealing with met us. We are sitting at the bar having drinks flirting and enjoy a nice vibe. Since we had company I didn’t want to put her business in the street, so I started writing down sexual questions on a napkin to see what she was or wasn’t into. For the most part it was what I expected, she was cool with regular day to day sex, which is cool, but I didn’t get a feeling that it would be any spectacular FGM moments going down in our future. lol Now that is not saying I didn’t think she was feeling me or that we wouldn’t have some adult fun. I just knew it wouldn’t be anything really over the top.

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When I hear a good joke I try to pass it on from time to time because laughter is important to me. Hope you will get a little giggle from these or they bring a smile to your face.

Joke 1
TWO OLD MEN DECIDE THEY ARE CLOSE TO THEIR LAST DAYS AND DECIDE TO HAVE A LAST NIGHT ON THE TOWN. AFTER A FEW DRINKS, THEY END UP AT THE LOCAL BROTHEL.

THE MADAM TAKES ONE LOOK AT THE TWO OLD GEEZERS AND WHISPERS TO HER MANAGER,
‘GO UP TO THE FIRST TWO BEDROOMS AND PUT AN INFLATED DOLL IN EACH BED.

THESE TWO ARE SO OLD AND DRUNK, I’M NOT WASTING TWO OF MY GIRLS ON THEM. THEY WON’T KNOW THE DIFFERENCE.’

THE MANAGER DOES AS HE IS TOLD AND THE TWO OLD MEN GO UPSTAIRS AND TAKE CARE OF THEIR BUSINESS. AS THEY ARE WALKING HOME THE FIRST MAN SAYS,

‘YOU KNOW, I THINK MY GIRL WAS DEAD!’

‘DEAD?’ SAYS HIS FRIEND, ‘WHY DO YOU SAY THAT?’

‘WELL, SHE NEVER MOVED OR MADE A SOUND ALL THE TIME I WAS LOVING HER.’ HIS FRIEND SAYS,

‘COULD BE WORSE I THINK MINE WAS A WITCH.’

‘A WITCH ??. . WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU SAY THAT?’

‘WELL, I WAS MAKING LOVE TO HER, KISSING HER ON THE NECK, AND I GAVE HER A LITTLE BITE, THEN SHE FARTED AND FLEW OUT THE WINDOW… TOOK MY TEETH WITH HER!’

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It’s that time of year again, Morehouse homecoming! My normal hang out crew is not flying into town this year, so I am not going to do it up like normal. However, there will be a few FGM sightings around town this weekend. For those of you that are in Atlanta, here are a few spots to check out. If you don’t know, Morehouse and Spelman homecoming parties are usually real strong and a lot of fun to be had by all. I will update this as I find out more, but this is a good start for those looking to get into something this weekend in Atlanta.

Thursday Night
Leopard Lounge - This has become a regular hot spot for a minute now. But, homecoming weekend will make sure that this spot is going to be off the chain. This is a can’t miss spot and the ratio should be a good one for both the men and the ladies. It is usually free before 10 and $20 after. If you get there after 9:30 be prepared to wait in line. Age range is late 20’s to late 30’s.

Royalty - Phipps Plaza. This is event will be at Phipps plaza where Niketown apparently use to be located. I didn’t get the memo that Niketown had shut down. This should be a nice spot as well and will be a all 20 something crowd, meaning early to late 20’s crowd.

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Ok, get your mind out of the gutter. What kind of blog do you think this is? Ok, Ok, it kinda sorta what you probably thought when you read the title. But, instead of it being about the male appendage this is about the woman’s. Yes, the good ole clit.

I met this cool female that was in a break up period with her boyfriend so she decided to explore during the down time. Fellas, word to the wise, when you tell your girl you need a minute apart don’t think she is just going to sit home looking at the walls. Anyway, we will call this friend Ms Amazon as she was a tall chocolate glass of water at about 5′9″, with ass, hips and would probably be considered a bit Amazonian by most standards. lol I think I have dated or been with a diverse look of women that I find attractive, but I would say she would be a first.

We went for drinks and while we were talking she told me that she had a big clit. So, I am like ok, cool, can’t wait to see it. She was like no, you don’t understand it’s big. In my mind, I am like wait, it is a clit right? lol Which I did ask her and she was like yes fool it is a clit. She clarified herself a little more and said that she usually gets a surprised response when guys see it so she wanted to give me a heads up.

After drinks we decide to head to her place. We get in her place and she fixes us both another drink and then she tells me to sit down while she changed clothes. She comes out giggling and I look up and she has on a long t-shirt with nothing else. The t-shirt stops just below her goodies, so I can’t tell if she has on any panties or not. I get up and go over to her and spank her phat ass. We both are standing there sipping on our drinks, when I put my drink down and turn her towards me and kiss her. We have a long passionate french kiss while my hands roam her ass. I slide to the side of her while we are kissing so I could rub her pussy and see what this clit felt like. I missed the clit, but my finger slid right into her pussy and it was soooo damn wet. I start to work my finger back up between her legs and rubbed the clit, to my relief it wasn’t circus freak big, but it was a pretty big clit sticking out and very hard.

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Ok, this post idea came after I had to laugh at this guy that plays on my football team. He is kind of a funny looking guy and he admits that. He ends up being the target of some jokes from our team and our opponents. He got in to a trash talking match with one of the teams we were playing and decides to reply to them by saying: “Google me Nigga!” Of course they were like WTF? So he was like Google me and find out who I am. Now the reality is, when you Google this fool you wouldn’t find out a damn thing. lmao But, I do think that was a clever come back especially if there was something for somebody to find on Google.

Anyway, I have had a stat tracker attached to my blog just so I could follow the number of hits I get. It has a few interesting statistics that it keeps up with in addition to hits. It will let you know what country people are visiting from which is pretty cool, I was keeping a count active count and stopped, but I have had visitors from over 20 countries. Now the majority of those hits from countries outside the US have been because of people Googling different topics and my blog comes up in the search.

I thought I would share with you what the top 5 searches are that bring up my page.

1. Why doesn’t a guy call you back?
This is one of the biggest searches on Google that brings up my page. It comes up because of a blog entry I posted that commented from another male’s perspective on the topic. I think there were some valid points. But, at the end of the day, if a guy doesn’t call back just move on. If a person can’t show that courtesy who needs them? One of the things I didn’t touch on in the entry was people go out all the time and meet people. They could be in a festive move or have had a few drinks when they met you. Once they got home they could have simply had a change of heart. Regardless of the reason a guy doesn’t call you back, there should be more energy placed on moving forward to the next person rather than wasting so much time and energy on why someone didn’t call back.

Here is the link: Why a man doesn’t call you back.

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Ok, I have been a guy that prides himself on having orgasm control. In particularly holding off cumming during the initial 10 mins when its really feeling great. The flip side of this is that once I hold off the orgasm it not easy to orgasm on command or exactly when I want to. Now this has never been a real issue, most women appreciate a guy that is not a minute man. I did have an ex that told me after about 6 mins of sex she was good. She told me this after we had been together for awhile and never requested we shorten the sex, she just said that after about 6 mins. the other was extra.

For those of you that have read my blog for awhile also know that I am very competitive and have been known to count the number of orgasms. To me that is a way to kind of keep score. Most women don’t get it, but I am goal oriented and as I said competitive. So for me, I like being able to have goals to shoot for or even records to break. lol It’s really a man thing, so don’t shoot me.

My question is, how long is enough for sex? Or does it even matter? Are you ok as long as you have at least one orgasm? I know most women are going to say, I don’t look at my watch or time it. I do get that, but in general terms what does it take to make it a satisfying experience?

Most of you have probably read or heard about the different theories of Dec. 12, 2012. It is considered by some to be a dooms day date. There are several ancient calendars that end on or around this date. Some also claim that Nostradamus predicted this time as the return of the anti-Christ. The 3rd thing is more scientific, but is also tied into some ancient writings. The 3rd thing tied to 2012 is the appearance of Nibiru or Planet X. This is suppose to be some planet that has never been official recognize by NASA or the general scientific community that has an orbit that will come close to Earth and cause the earth’s magnetic poles to shift and throw the earth off balance from a weather and climate standpoint.

Below is a list of some of the ancient cultures that mentioned 2012. I must say, for there to be multiple cultures to mention this that it does make you think.

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If the world was ending in 30 days for whatever reason you want to think of, what would be the top 5 things on your sexual bucket list? In other words, what would you do sexually that you may not other wise do because you think you would be judged by society, friends or family if there were absolutely NO repercussion for you doing anything in your wildest dreams or fantasies. What are the top 5 things you would want to do sexually before you left this earth or kick the bucket?

Ok, I will be fair and share my Bucket List. Although depending on my mood and how creative I get this is subject to change. lol

Now this is truly wish list with no repercussions at all if it was done. Remember the world is ending. A couple of these I think I can make happen.

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What’s up people. Been a little busy and need to catch up with the blog. The last time I posted was getting ready to enjoy my B-day week. So here is a quick update on what I did.

My b-day was Monday the 27th.

Sunday 26th - A good friend and business associate came to town so we had drinks Sunday night. Craig is a white guy from the UK, so I brought in my b-day at midnight laughing, drinking Jack and Coke and hearing this dude say “mate” every other sentence.

Monday 27th - Slept in that day as I had been on the road to Mississippi Friday and Saturday for business. That night my mom took me to dinner for my favorite dinner a nice juicy steak and baked potato. She was kind enough to let us sit at the bar to watch the NBA playoffs as well. This old drunk white guy sat next to us and talked us to death, but he was pretty funny and bought me a b-day drink.

Tuesday 28th - Slept in again. lol Hey it’s my b-day week. Went over to my grandparents house where my uncle cooked one of my other favorites - ribs. They had me a half slab of ribs ready for me when I got there. They were so damn good. My uncle can throw down on the grill and in the kitchen.

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For those that don’ know, I am a Morehouse Alum. I love my alma mater dearly and when I heard this news I had to spread the word. For the record, Dr. Massey is also a graduate of Morehouse, he wasn’t just the past President he was a product of the school itself. This is a HUGE deal. To be Chairman of one of the largest banks in the world even in these economic times wields a lot of power and influence. Here is the article for those that didn’t hear about it. Much love Dear Ole Morehouse!

Morehouse College president emeritus Walter E. Massey has been named chairman of Bank of America, the nation’s second largest commercial bank.

The announcement came Wednesday after shareholders voted to create an independent chairman, ousting former chair Ken Lewis and leaving him as president and chief executive officer.

Massey, 71, was president of the Atlanta-based college from August 1995 to June 2007, and was a director on the BankAmerica Corp. board from 1993 to 1998.

His ascension to Bank of America’s chair came as Lewis’ responsibilities were reduced by a slim margin by the board. The vote was 50.3 percent in favor of creating the new independent chair, with 49.7 percent opposed, bank officials said.

Massey wasn’t immediately available for comment.

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I was on one of my favorite message boards and a guy asked the question: Could you marry a chic that doesn’t swallow?

The responses were pretty varied and some were a bit sad.

75% of the guys said it didn’t matter.
25% said they would end it.

In my mind, I think it’s crazy that something like that would determine if you would marry a person or not. I tell any woman, that if a guy says he doesn’t want to be with you because of something like that, he isn’t the type of guy you need in your life. As most of you know, sex is important to me and I think it is fantastic. The reality is that it takes more than sex to have a great relationship and it surely takes more than one sex act to make sex bad.

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Ok, this is a bit different. A guy posted this on a message board I check out from time to time and I thought this was a very entertaining. The guy swears it’s a true story. It’s worth the read.

AZ the Aziatic blares in the speakers. “You know the story how the thugs live and worry/ Ducked down in car seats, heats mandatory.” As I pull out of parking lot of the Smoove and turn right I think back to the last time I was in this area two days ago. The street was cordoned off with police tape because of an incident where a police cruiser crashed into another vehicle. I took a detour upon seeing flashing lights fearing that all the commotion was a random sobriety checkpoint. My head was much clearer this time as I accelerated to 40 mph and cranked the volume to its max level. I had left the club early after texting my favorite dancer and learning that she was working downtown at Magic City. I didn’t feel like making the drive and decided to resort to plan B. Plan B was a ho that advertised her services on a local chat line that I contacted earlier in the day. I always felt a little uncomfortable about not being in control of the situation when I went to a Shorty’s crib for an incall and this particular one had my spidey senses tingling. Oh well, if some grimey shit goes down then I probably deserve it I think and laugh to myself. I’ve been struggling with my addiction to hoes and strippers for some time. I used to keep track of how much money I wasted on the services of women from Amsterdam to Argentina but had long lost count. Every man has his vice, for some it is alcohol, crack, or gambling. My Achillies heel had always been pussy for sell. This is the last time I tell myself for the thousandth time and re-focus.

As I pull up to the apartment building I pull out my page plus phone purchased for instances when I don’t desire my primary cell number to be exchanged. I had learned my lesson in the past and now each of my alter-egos possesses his own cell phone number and e-mail address. My impending sense of discomfort grows slightly as she tells me that she will be down shortly with a friend. I briefly contemplate pulling off, that is until I see her friend. Damn, I think to myself, this bitch is built like a brick shithouse. My original contact had proven to be disappointing however, it was obvious that she had lied about her age, body dimensions and overall appearance. As I walk up the stairs and make small talk I observe my surroundings for potential set-ups, law enforcement activity and an egress route all the while trying to determine whether or not “friend with ass” would be down for my soon to come indecent proposal. The ideal scenario would involve ugly hoe understanding that she was not what I was looking for and accepting a small amount of cash to just shut up and chill out while it went down with her girl. Tonight was not ideal and the best I could manage was talking ugly girl into a threesome. Oh well, she wanted her cash and I wanted friend with ass. It was her place and her share was less than taking friend with ass to a hotel room so money was exchanged and clothes started to drop. Thats when the phone rang.

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Please take a look at this video. It touches on what I think is one of the biggest issues with black America right now. Black men and women are taking a stance against each other that is only making the black community weaker. I will post my thoughts of the video below, but I ask you to take a look at it as well and share what you think.

I honestly don’t know where to start with this video. The male voice over in the video basically threw black women under the bus. At the end of the video the blonde haired black female basically said it was a wrap in her trying to date black men.

The unfortunate thing that I see in all of this is at some point black men and women have become enemies to each other. We no longer are on the same team and no longer support each other. We have all taken what white America says about us and have internalized it and know spew the hate towards our own. How in the hell did we allow this to happen?

This is the reality as I see it. White women complain about dating as well as black women. White men and black men can’t complain about it as much because it makes them look like they are whinning. So you mostly hear about women complaining about dating. As the old saying goes, the squeaky wheel gets the oil. Dating and finding the right person is not a race issue. It is a people issue. It is difficult for everyone to find “the one” regardless of race or gender. We always think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.

If we continue to go down this road of blamng each other, the black community is in for bleak times.

Just a quick note: To the male voice over guy. Oprah was approached and dated a white man. Ebert of Siskel and Ebert movie critics actually dated Oprah before she went syndicated. My guess is that there are probably a few more.