Freaky Good Man

This is a tough story to write about, it is sad yet up lifting. A friend of my mother’s had not checked in with her over the New Years weekend and hadn’t made it to church. When she mentioned it to me, I told her not to worry she was probably spending some time with her new boyfriend. You know how we get when we get a new flame. Sometimes we may have a long weekend together and just disappear from everyone else.

My mom is on Face Book although she has no real idea of how to truly use it and has not even set up her profile completely. She will browse her friend’s pages to look at pictures from time to time, but that is the extent of it.

Late Sunday night after trying not to worry about her friend she decided to go to her friend’s FB page and for some reason was unable to pull it up. She remembered her sister was on FB and was able to find her page. She sent the sister an email saying that she didn’t want to worry her, but she hadn’t heard from her sister and wondered if she had heard from her.

(more…)

I received a question from a blog reader recently and decided to put it in the Ask FGM section. Here is her question: “FGM I have been a fan for awhile and some of your more entertaining reads were your experiences with Ms Les. I know those were awhile back but they were hot. I am not into anal, but those experiences sounded great. Especially that she was able to have orgasms from anal. I am thinking about exploring in that direction but wanted to know if you could describe how it feels compared to regular sex and which is better?”

Interesting question and it has been asked a few times. I know a few readers have shown interest about this since reading my blog. Let me start off by saying, the kitty is undefeated. Cars, money, power, houses have all felt the defeat of the kitty. Most of those things are used just to get the kitty. So, to be clear I love getting the kitty more than the booty.

The kitty is warmer, wetter, deeper and tasty. Anal is a bit different of an experience from regular penetration. The ass first and foremost is tighter than the kitty. Even if a woman does her kegels the kitty won’t be as tight as the ass. When the kitty grips the dick it feels great, but it does not grip the entire dick. Once the dick gets into the ass it grips the entire dick from head to base, which I think is the biggest difference. When doing anal using lube is important, but most times if a woman is turned on from foreplay the ass will self lube. Also, after the woman is able to get comfortable the ass is not as tight so you can fuck the ass more aggressively as you go on and it a lot of times will open up so you can penetrate it like the kitty.

(more…)

What’s up people. Here is a lil love your boy is sending out to you. This can help in the romance department. Massages are always a good way to relax both giving and receiving. I have found a lot of people are not comfortable giving massages. If you happen to be one of those people or would like to step your game up a little, this is a nice video on Tantric massage. Use it as is or add your own personal touch to techniques shown. The video shows techniques for both men and women.

Just click on the link and the video open and play on your screen. There is no downloading needed. Hopefully this will add a little relaxation, enjoyment and spice to your life. There is nudity so don’t open it up at the job.

Tantric Massage Video

This Thanksgiving I was told a story that really left me wondering if I am missing something. My aunt told me that one of her neighbors was a single female in her mid 30’s to early 40’s. She met a guy online and in two months they are engaged to be married. Now that in itself is rushing it a bit, but here is the kicker. The couple has NEVER met in person, not once. All communication has been via phone and internet including video conferencing. She even met his parents via video conference. WTF?

Now, I am all for people being happy and meeting the love of their life’s. But, how in the hell do you know somebody is the one with out meeting face to face at least ONE time? Come on, shouldn’t you at least put the ring on the finger in person? Even if you don’t have sex with the person. Don’t you want to see how they feel in your arms when they give you a hug or how they kiss? What about something as simple as personal hygiene? Don’t you want to know how you interact in person? Interaction on the phone and internet is a lot different than in person face to face.

Yes I know love conquers all, but your marriage can’t be based solely on internet love. I am all for meeting people in whatever forum you decide to. I have met people via the internet and have developed friendships. I have met friends writing this blog where all we have done is communicate via the net. So, I get that you can develop feelings for someone via the internet, but marriage?

Somebody, please tell me that I am missing something. Would you do this? Before you answer, I know guys, mostly white men that have done mail order brides and things of that nature for years. But, those are marriages of convenience and I personally think the men are losers and the women are trying to get out of God forsaken places to better themselves in America. I am talking about true love of your life, death do us part type of marriage. To me, That’s That Bull Shit. lmao

I would like to start 2010 off on a positive note. I have blasted different personalities like Tyler Perry about the work he does and plan to continue to do that if he keeps putting out the garbage he does. Wait I did say positive right? lol

I don’t listen to regular radio much, for several years I have been more of a sports and political talk radio guy. I still listen to my tunes on my laptop and ipod, but regular “urban” radio is a joke in my opinion for the most part.

One of the few times I was listening to “regular” radio I caught the Michael Baisden show and he was discussing one of the projects he has for the upcoming year. I pulled up his site to try to get more details to pass on to you, but I was unable to find it. He is attempting to get 1,000,000 adult mentors to pair up with youth. I have always been a huge fan of mentoring programs and think it is a great idea.

(more…)

The end of the year is a very busy time of year from a business perspective. We have some of our largest events in the first quarter of the year. I will be in Miami the second weekend in January and the very next weekend I will be in San Diego. I know, woe is me having to go to those two places in January. lol Then of course Vegas at the end of March.

Please recommend some good places to eat and party at in Miami. This will actually be my first time there and I am really looking forward to going. I am pretty open minded about where I hang out as long as I can have a good time. As long as the crowd is a true adult crowd. I don’t do the college age crowds. I am even thinking about heading to Trapeze there in Ft. Lauderdale. I have been to the one here in Atlanta several times, but heard that’s where it all started there.

I actually went to San Diego last year and had a good time. I hit the Gas Lamp District and had a ball. It actually closed a little earlier than I hoped, but a good time was had by all. A nice diverse crowd and a lot of options to check out. If anyone knows of some must see spots to check out there as well let me know. I did have a great steak at Seau’s last year, thinking I may make that stop an annual tradition.

If anyone wants to hang out or show me around while I am there hit me up. Also, ladies there are usually a ton of eligible bachelors from all over the country at our events so if you have friends that like to hang let me know.

This is the first update on my grandfather in a long time. For those of you that have read my blog for awhile you know that my grandfather was literally on his death bed about 2 years ago. Yes, it’s been 2 years. Since that time he has made a strong recovery. The last time I mentioned him, I talked about how he had started drinking beer after not drinking it for years. Initially my grandmother had issues with it, but when it was brought to his doctor’s attention she was like at his age and considering he was on his death bed, let him enjoy a few vices since he still may not live that much longer. After hearing that, it made sense to us. We were like why not have a little of life’s enjoyment at this point, what will it hurt.

Well, that decision has come back to bite us in the ass. If you were to ask me then if I thought my grandfather would be alive in 2 years I probably would have said no. Since he has continued living he has gradually increased his beer intake. What started out as one beer while watching the game has shot up to as much as 5 or 6 beers a day. Yes, my 85ish grandfather that has diabetes and a few other old age ailments has gotten on the wagon.

The infamous straw that broke the camel’s back was a month or so ago when they found him in the bathroom collapsed on the floor unresponsive. My grandmother calls 911 and they take him to the emergency room. To my grandmother’s embarrassment and dismay the Doc comes in and asks her how much my grandfather had to drink. We later find out this MF (yes my beloved grandfather) has snuck into the house with a bottle of liquor that he has hid under the bed. He had apparently had him a lil self drinking party, was going to the bathroom and passed out.

(more…)

I have never talked about my father on this blog. It has not been intentionally, but I haven’t. My father is usually on my mind this time of year. He left this earth at the ripe old age of 42 from a brain aneurysm. Interestingly he died two years apart on the exact same day as his father on December 16th.

Me and my dad were not extremely close, but we had a good relationship. I was raised by my mother and maternal grandparents, but my father was in my life until he passed my Junior year of college. He was a interesting guy in that he was raised in the city of Atlanta, but he was a country boy at heart. He and my mother were high school sweethearts that ended up having me during their sophomore years in college. They were not married very long, but he was active in my life.

My dad remarried when I was about 6 or 7 and I have a wonderful stepmother that I still have a great relationship with to this day. My dad was a big time outdoors man. He loved to fish and hunt. His first love was fishing without a doubt. He loved fishing so much that he got fired once because he called in from work to go fishing on more than one occasion. He had this dream of being the first black fishermen to host a fishing TV show.

(more…)

Listen, I know Christmas is way too commercial and receiving gifts is not the reason for the season. I get all of that, I truly do. I am the person who is normally bearing gifts come Christmas to all the kids in the family and elders. So, I feel I can say my piece on this.

We all understand that money is tight. HOWEVER, if you are going to get a man a gift don’t waste his or your time buying some of the bull shit that men usually get stuck with.

Now, I know this is not the case for everybody. If you are a good gift giver keep doing what you do. I am focusing this on those that like to give gifts to “marginal” relatives or friends. If you are going to take the time to spend your hard earned money on a gift shouldn’t you at least give something that is appreciated? Of course you should!

(more…)

A couple of my more memorable blog entries have been about fisting and gang bangs. The reasons they have been memorable for me is for the honest and varied replies to the topics. Lately it seems that I have been hearing and reading about more women being really interested in experiencing a DP aka Double Penetration. The sexual act when the woman is penetrated by two men at the same time, one in her pussy and one in her ass.

Now I can theoretically see why a woman would enjoy a DP, but I can also see why she would be overwhelmed by it. My personal experience with DPs has been with me using a dildo on a woman while I penetrated her. It was a fun and very pleasurable experience for me and the females I experienced it with had orgasms from doing it.

As far as me participating in a MFM 3 some and doing it, I have historically not been for it for my admitted homophobic reasons, but it has intrigued me recently and I am warming up to the idea in the right scenario. From the male perspective there are just too many intricate parts that could touch and interact for my liking. I have heard that the main reason DPs don’t work is because of this homophobic thought in guys head when they attempt to do it. Which ultimately translates to poor performance or a complete lack of being able to get it up to make the DP happen.

I have a couple of questions to women that are reading this:
1. If you have experienced a DP with two men did you enjoy it? If you did enjoy it how intense was the experience? If you did not enjoy it, why?
2. If you are a woman that has not experience a DP would you consider doing it and why?

As a bonus question if you are a woman that would or has enjoyed a DP would you be open to a 3rd guy joining and filling up your 3rd hole, your mouth?

Ladies and Gentleman,

This is a public service announcement from FGM. I know the economy is tough on a lot of people right now. But, those of you that have the means, I encourage you to get back in or if you were not in before to get into the stock market NOW.

Yes, I know people are still saying there is doom and gloom in the economy. I am here to tell you over the last 6 months of 2009 people have been making a killing in the stock market. Please understand that when everybody decides to get back into the market you can still make money, but the big money is always made when you move before the crowd.

There are so many companies out there that are or were way undervalued that there are incredible deals to be had. They became undervalued when the economy tanked and people started pulling their money out of the market. The crazy thing about the stock market is that it typically will over correct positively and negatively. The US economy had been due for a major correction for over a year or two and it was being supported by a lot of bogus or misinterpreted positive earnings. So when the rug was pulled out from under the economy it tanked big time to the point that people panicked and the economy went way overboard with it’s correction. Long story short there are great opportunities out there.

I am not writing this to give you the next great stock tip. But, I am here to let you know now is the time to take advantage of the market to be ahead of the game.

To give you some quick examples of why I am encouraging you to get into the market right now:
1. Wall St. announced record profits for the year 2009 after reporting just the first 3 quarters of 2009. That’s right, record profits for the year and there is a full quarter of business left where more profits are expected to be reported. What does that mean exactly? Wall St. brokers make money when their clients make money. They also invest their own funds. So, even with a lot of American investors still out of the stock market, Wall St. brokers are still generating incredible return on investments.
2. The average 401k has rebounded 50% from when the stock market completely bottomed out.

All the insiders and brokers are making a killing right now why the average Joe is sitting on the sidelines. You still have to be a prudent investor, but let your money work for you in 2010 and ride the wave up. The earlier you get in the longer the upward swing while the economy is recovering.

3. I also have a very good personal friend that is a stock broker that basically stop seeing clients so he could invest his own money full time and his portfolio went from $200k to just over $700k in the last 12 months. That’s is correct, he more than tripled his net worth while the market supposedly sucked.

4. Article on the topic. Wall Street Profits Soar to $50 Billion

5. Another article backing my blog entry. Funds Boss Made 7-Billion in the Panic

That’s my public service announcement to all FGM readers. Thanks for reading!

This happened a couple of weeks ago and was funny as shit to me. I met this female and we got to know each other with a few dates and a lot of “get to know you” phone calls. The conversations would go through it’s courses, we would talk about a little bit of everything, including sex. During the sex conversation she mentioned to me that she masturbated frequently. She told me that it was so frequent that at one point she stopped cold turkey because she had become addicted to it. Some of my older readers know I have written about over masturbation in the past or as I like to call it, too much self love. Check out the blog entry if you missed it (Too Much Self Love). She also told me different ways she liked to be pleased and didn’t like. One of the things she mentioned was that when she masturbated that she just liked to play with her clit with no penetration. She also mentioned that when a guy would do oral on her that when he would use his fingers to penetrate her it took much longer for her to cum.

(more…)

My part time hussle I do on the side of my business is officiating youth football. One of the dynamics that has always been interesting to me is the people that coach youth sports, in particularly football.

The first scenario is a catch 22 that happens in hoods all over the country. Now, the youth leagues that I officiate have diverse backgrounds. Some are straight hood and some are from middle class areas. One of the things we always see with some of the hood teams is that there is a fairly large number of the coaches that are dope boys coaching the teams.

The reason this is a catch 22 is that if these guys are not coaching the teams, there may not be anyone else that will step up to take the time and at least attempt to coach these kids. So, I have always given kudos to men that take the time out of their life to help and teach another person’s child all that goes with coaching which includes sportsmanship and some of life’s other lessons.

(more…)

This is a story that happened close to my b-day back in April, but I never finished it until now. I think she had just a tad of crazy on her. I met this female at happy hour. Real sexy female that was a nurse and had a cool personality. She is in the process of going through a divorce, she has 3 kids and lives way the fuck in no mans land. Because of the pending divorce, the 3 kids and where she lives, I would not consider her someone I would date long term. Let me clarify. The divorce isn’t a major issue although I would not date someone seriously until they have had time to get over the divorce and the divorce was final. I do know some people have long drawn out divorces, but this didn’t seem to be the case. I don’t have any kids, so a female with 3 kids is too many for me. If a woman has one child, I can get with that. Plus this female said she didn’t want to have any more kids. I still want kids. Anybody that knows Atlanta, knows that people are spread out all over the place. She lives 54 minutes away from me without any traffic.

Anyway, onto the crazy part. We met Thursday night. We hang out for dinner and a movie on Sunday. Everything went well, we laughed a lot and cuddled a little so a good first date. Her kids are with their dad on Monday’s so we decided to have drinks and relax at her house Monday night. All that day on Monday we are texting each other and have some fun exchanges via texts.

I get to her house that night and we have a couple of drinks get to know each other better and relax. The previous night I had put my hand on the back of her neck and she was very tense, so I told her I would give her a massage. That was before we decided to meet the next night, but I came prepared to work on her. She wanted to have her massage in her bedroom. So we get to her bed room and she jumps on the bed and lays on her stomach. I try to work on her back and neck, but she had on a shirt that was getting in the way, not to mention her bra. So, I tell her to take it off and she hesitated, but obliged me. Now she is topless on the bed laying face down and all she has on is these tight ass boy shorts on. She was a little shorty about 5′1″ but had some track like legs that I was loving.

(more…)

This is an experience I had this summer. I met this lil cutie that is younger than I usually roll with (she was 25), but it ended up being a cool ass experience. She is a somewhat tall chic about 5′9″, slim to medium build, chocolate complexion, 36 to 38D and some very pretty ass lips.

I picked her up and we went to a lil neighborhood bar where my cousin and a female he was dealing with met us. We are sitting at the bar having drinks flirting and enjoy a nice vibe. Since we had company I didn’t want to put her business in the street, so I started writing down sexual questions on a napkin to see what she was or wasn’t into. For the most part it was what I expected, she was cool with regular day to day sex, which is cool, but I didn’t get a feeling that it would be any spectacular FGM moments going down in our future. lol Now that is not saying I didn’t think she was feeling me or that we wouldn’t have some adult fun. I just knew it wouldn’t be anything really over the top.

(more…)