Freaky Good Man

Came across a great site to find movies and software and as I was searching I came across a few vids I thought would be helpful and even entertaining to the visitors of the blog. Not sure if I will just add links to this entry or add different entries. We shall see how the response is. There were several good guides on different sexual techniques. The first one I saw had someone who is considered an expert on the subject and she goes over different techniques and ideas, then they have a couple of couples to actually do the sexual activity and then discuss it. So, I think it gives some good ideas from different perspectives if you are looking to improve upon what you are already doing. A lot of these types of vids can be boring, but the ones I have seen so far have not been bad at all. Click on the video link and it will take you to a free download site. Note: I have not taken the time to view all of them, if you like or dislike a particular one please give your feedback.

Expert Guide To Anal Sex
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Lovers Guide to Sexual Positions and Karma Sutra
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Expert Guide To Oral Sex - Cunnilingus

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Expert Guide To Oral Sex - Fellatio

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Was at home relaxing watching the game with my laptop next to me. I see a FWB that is a workaholic on yahoo messenger. I hit her up with a simple hello and the next thing you know I am talking shit to her. The first few times we got together we had some great sex, but she is a contract nurse and she is working as much as they will allow her, so we have not been able to hook up like I thought we would ( I will write about our first few encounters another time). So, I am giving her a hard time about us not playing in a minute. I am like when can I get some more of that good loving. She replies I can have it whenever I want. My big mouth is like how about tonight. Now it is about 10:30 PM during the week and I honestly hadn’t planned on going anywhere. She was like, I just moved and my house is a mess maybe we can hook up in a couple of days. Then she remembers that her daughter will be there for a week starting the next day, so she is like if we are going to do it, tonight is the night. Now I am like shit, I can’t back out and say I was just playing. Now don’t get me wrong I been wanting to get my hands back on her for way too long. When we first got together, we made a bet that if I made her have a certain amount of orgasms I could do whatever I wanted to do to her sexually. I blew past her previous record by more than double, so she didn’t even blink when I started throwing sexual ideas at her. Anyway, she was like let me get my house together and you can come on by. I felt guilty at this point and was like look, I have known you long enough I know you just moved, just clear out a spot on the bed or the sofa and we will make it happen.

She was like cool we can do that. I told her I would be at her house around 12ish. I couldn’t get it in gear. I was watching the start of the NBA season when the Heat played Boston and then there was a second game on after it when the Lakers played. Needless to say I didn’t make it to her spot until about 1:00 AM. She told me she had to be up at 5Am to get ready for work. With that in mind we both agreed to a quickie. When I get to her place I knock on the door and don’t get an answer or hear anything, so I texted her to let her know I was at the door. Nothing. I waited a good 5 mins texting and knocking on the door trying not to be loud as hell at that time of the morning. She finally comes to the door, looking like she just woke up (which she did) and hair wrapped in a silk scarf. You know how you ladies do when it’s bed time. lol

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As usual these are just some of the things that have been running through my head recently.

1. I have really been thinking about starting / creating a small group of open minded people to have what I have been calling a Fantasy Fulfillment Club. Now before I continue if anybody reads this and decides to start something like this either invite me, tell me detailed stories of how it turned out or at the very least give me some credit for coming up with the idea. Not saying it’s completely brand new, but show me some love. lol In my mind I envision this starting out as a small group of about 10 to 12 open minded attractive people with the make up being a 3 or 4 couples, a couple single guys and a few single females. The final make up can vary a bit, but that’s just the initial idea. The goal of the group is to actually help people live out their fantasies in a comfortable environment. There are swingers clubs and other clubs out there, but you are not guaranteed to get what you want. We would meet a couple of times a month or once a month. Each person that joins has to agree to assist at least one person or couple with fulfilling their fantasy to ensure everyone gets their fantasies fulfilled. Each time we meet we will met at a house or hotel that has at least 2 bedrooms and we will fulfill a minimum of two fantasies when we get together. When a member joins they would share what fantasies or fantasy they have and how they want it to go down. The fantasies will be randomly chosen each time we meet. The group will facilitate taking care of their wishes as close as possible. As the group gets comfortable with each other we can add more members. There are a few more details but that is the gist of it. I actually started a group similar to this a few years ago, but I think this would be more exciting.

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I had decided to refrain from making another Bishop Long post, but as I mentioned awhile ago one of the most frequent yahoo / google searches that bring up may page is the entry I wrote about Bishop Long a few years ago. Since I have gotten some recent comments on that post I decide to go ahead and make an entry.

Even when I criticized some of the extravagance that I perceive that Bishop Long has around him. I acknowledged that his ministry is doing good in the community. Just because I do not agree with him 100% does not mean that I don’t recognize that the work he and his church has done is powerful for the metro Atlanta community and even outside of it.

The thing that really made want to do this entry is that after Bishop Long’s accusers were identified and one did a news interview. There were a few guys that came to Bishop Long’s defense voluntarily: three of those guys were people that I know very well. It was actually a bit comical to see these guys defending him, but I am sure they did what they felt was right. If the church asked those guys to come forward they could have used some better spokesmen in my opinion.

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My business partner told me about one of our old childhood friends that he has recently reconnected with. It’s actually a guy we played little league ball with and his girlfriend who we went to high school with. I am not sure exactly what she does, but apparently she has a little money. He has been having issues with where he is in life as far as career is concerned and even re-living his days as a self proclaimed pretty boy. This dude is really living back in the high school days and openly conversations about chics that he got back in high school. He has been caught cheating recently and he has told his live in girl friend that he has major concerns about her weight. Now on the other hand, she is being an enabler or sugar mama. She just put most of the money down for him to open up a restaurant. She pays all the bills including the mortgage. And get this, she gives this fool $1,200 a month to do whatever he wants with it. Did I mention he just cheated on her. On the one hand, it’s like what is this negro thinking messing that up and on the other hand it’s like why is he wasting both of their time when it’s clear he is not happy in the current situation. The sad part is that I think they both realize there is no real happiness in what they have, but they are getting so deep into it they will probably move forward with the relationship anyway.

I jokingly told my business partner I may have to take one for the team and find me a Sugar Mama to get some things done. I have had two opportunities to be in that situation and couldn’t even begin to go down that road. I have a friend that I met at church who is a go getter in corporate America. We always enjoyed each others company, but because we met at church I was just strictly on the friendship level and never felt anything more for her. She had all the hook up to all the sports teams here in the city. We would always go and have the best seats or sit in the suites. Everything she touched business wise turned to gold. She has a real strong business acumen. After awhile I realized that she was interested in me a lot more than just a hang out and church buddy. At that time the thought crossed my mind to go with it, but I couldn’t do it.

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I had no idea about this chic until I heard that Carmelo Anthony tweeted that he had $5k for anybody that would slap her ass and have video proof. When I heard the story and some of the rumblings about who she was I took the time to research who she was on the net. I can’t believe I wasted 15 mins on this trick. This chic has made a life if you want to call it that, by being Super Head Jr. She is happily claiming that she is fucking half the hip hop stars in the country and getting her claim to fame by ratting them out aka Super Head. This lil trick is has some serious problems and comes off very unintelligent and a 2 cent whore. Yet, she is getting radio interviews and book deals. This is the type of shit that our young black females see and hear about and adds to the negativity that is already in the heads of your young folk. It kills me that she is trying to come off rough and tough on her video blog, yet all her actions are screaming that she is a very vulnerable lost young woman. This chic is young and after this brief 15 mins of fame is going to a complete wreck.

For those that don’t know she has claimed to have slept with Nelly, Lil Bow wow, The Game and a host of others. Her latest claim to fame was fucking Soul Ja Boy and claiming he was a coke head. She had video footage of them together just relaxing and lines of coke in their hotel room. She is a hot mess.

This is going to be two parts to this discussion and I hope I get some feedback on this topic. It has popped up a few times the last couple of months. The initial topic that I will actually do a separate blog about later was the whole white women are more submissive than black women topic and how that effects dating. This had come up at least twice over the last two months and when I caught some of the Michael Basden show it was a topic he was discussing. I don’t listen to his show much and I was only able to catch a few minutes of it this time, but it is a interesting topic, but the part I want to start off discussing is the indirect topic of how the stereo types we have are fucking up black on black relationships.

To me this is so simple in how it effects us, yet I have never heard anyone really deal with this head on, but in our feabile attempts to be strong black men and strong black women or to prove ourselves as one it actually fucks up our relationships. In any relationship whether its white / black, black / black, man / woman, woman / woman or whatever, it is very difficult to have a successful relationship with both parties trying to prove that they are these strong people. That’s just like saying two Alpha males are a match made in heaven for marriage.

Black men time and time again are struggling to prove their worth and their man hood. They try to do it in the work place and then at home. The black woman is steadily struggling to prove the same thing. At the end of the day both parties are bumping heads and having a real hard time co-existing in relationships.

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Ok, these are not brand new statistics (National Center for Health 2007), but when I saw this it blew me the hell away. 40% of all kids in the US are born out of wedlock. That’s a pretty strong number, but wait there is more. For African Americans the rate is 72%! What in the hell? 72%! I just don’t understand how this rate is so high. Let me say first and foremost that there are two parts to this scenario. Men are part of this, but this trend is not a new one. Of that 72% a great majority of those are staying and being raised by the mother alone. My question is at this day and time are AA women just wanting to have kids if they can’t have a relationship or what? Knowing that the woman has to deal with the actual pregnancy and probably raising the child solo, why would you be having sex with guys and not be using some form of birth control. We are not even getting into the STD discussion were are simply talking about having unwanted pregnancies. I am looking at my black women to step up. Like I said, men are as responsible, but women it’s your body and your life that is going to be most effected by this situation. AA women think about yourself and be selfish when it comes to birth control. All I have to say about 72% is That’s That Bull Shit! We have to do better as a community.

Man I know Lawrence Fishburne is pissed. I don’t understand why these woman have yet to understand that porn does not do shit for your life. In an interview on TMZ Mr. Fishburne’s daughter Montana Fishburne (porn name Chippy D wtf?) said she wanted to do porn to help promote her acting career. When was the last time you saw a porn start crossing over? You have a very select few white porn stars that have made it, but the numbers are very rare. You have a few black porn stars that may pop up in a rap video, but I can not think of one black pornstar that has gain any success outside of the porn business. Montana used Kim Kardashian as her influence to do porn. Kim Kardashian fucked a celebrity on self taped sex scene that they controlled how it got out. Not a full fledge porn. Apparently some of Mr. Fishburne’s friends came together with $1,000,000 to try to stop the release of the tape, but Vivid video said it was too late that it had already been distributed. TMZ did a follow interview with Montana and she said she surprise to hear about what her dad’s friends did, but was happy the video was distributed anyway because she wanted everyone to see it. She said she wanted her parents to be proud of her regardless of what she did. You want your parent’s to proud that you are being a whore on camera? Ok, makes sense. lol

I would have to think that this chic would have had some sort of in, in hollywood if she really wanted to use it. Her dad is not some fly by night actor. He has over 20 years of work in film, surely at this point he could call her to get on a reality show or something. There is nothing about Ms Montana that is going to make her a true porn star, she fucked up and did her first scene with a porn star that thinks he’s a rapper and is not liked by a lot that enjoy porn, but oh well. She has a nice body, but it’s one that does not stand out and is seen pretty frequently in porn or on the local stage at the strip club. I am not sure who gave her this bright idea, but nothing good is coming out of this.

I am sure none of you want to watch the video but for those of you that may want to see the family resemblance or something here is the link: Montana “Chippy D” Fishburne Flick

If I was Mr. Fishburne I would be like That’s That Bull Shit!

*Note: This was written back in April of 2010, just never published.
Last week was my birthday, it unfortunately fell on a Tuesday, but I made the best of it. Part of my plan was to go catch a couple of movies during the day. I walked out of the house around 2:00 and as I opened the door to my car this white bird flew down and landed on top of the hood. It startled me a little bit, because I wasn’t expecting anything to be dropping from above. All I saw was something white out of the corner of my eye. Then to realize it is a nice size bird landing on my car really threw me off. The bird casually walked over to the edge of the hood near where I was standing and just looked at me. As I was looking at the bird a couple was walking by and they were so astonished at it’s demeanor and how it seemed to just fly to me they asked me if the bird was my pet. The bird looked like it was as relaxed as can be. They happened to see the whole thing when the bird flew down, as they walked off the woman said: “That is amazing”.

After they passed by, the bird jumped on to the ground and started calmly walking towards me. I wasn’t scared because the bird wasn’t making any noises or doing anything that would make me think it was in attack mode. The bird stopped and looked at me again and as it stood their I asked it if it was my grandfather. I was like grand-dad is that you? Now the bird didn’t speak back or chirp (I would have been on the news if that had happened. lol), but a calmness came over me after I said that. At that time the thought came into my mind to pick the bird up, but my better mind prevailed. But, that is how calming the situation was. My door was still open and the bird started walking over like it was about to hop up into the car. It didn’t, but it casually walked over to the grass right in front of where I was parked and I sat there and watched it for about 10 mins. Once I realized how much time had passed and that I was going to be late for the movies I said goodbye and jumped in the car. I have been on the look out for the bird every since then and I have not seen anything.

We have all heard our elders tell us that people from our past will come visit us in different forms or fashions. I truly believe for this to happen on my birthday my grandfather wanted to let me know that he was looking over me. I want to say thank you to my grandfather for showing his presence to me and he will always be in my heart. For all of those out there that feel alone in this world always know that you are never truly alone.

Here are the pics I took of the bird the first is when he landed on top of the hood and the second was him just walking around:
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Wow, it’s been almost 6 months since I have last written anything here. Hasn’t been since my grandfather’s death. I have a lot to write about. In general terms things have been going well for me. Slowly making the adjustment of my grandfather not being in my life, but the family as a whole seems to be doing well. My uncle and aunt are living with my grandmother and it initially was a point of contention with the family because the two of them tend to fight like cats and dogs. Which was driving my grandmother up the wall and had her on pins and needles. They have recently seem to have settled in and are tolerating each other. My grandmother is in good spirits. She wasn’t eating a lot and trying to find herself the first few months after the funeral, but seems to be finding her stride again.

Although the economy sucks right now, we have been blessed with my business. This is the best year we have ever had. We are expanding and all of the places we have been in had increase in attendance from the previous year. We still have a lot of room for growth, but being able to break bread at the end of the day as me and my business partner like to call it is a beautiful thing.

The dating scene is a whole different ball of wax. I have not been trying to seriously date, but it’s been awhile since I have done any real dating. Have met some cool women, but nothing overly exciting. The freakiness of freaky good man hasn’t been too bad. Have had some fun episodes i will be writing about. Looks like I have one or two more good possibilities that are open to some fun, so that part of the life seems to be heating up even more.

My mom is doing well. She has gotten settled into her new job and seems to be enjoying it for the most part besides the pay. I still wish she would get into dating some. She doesn’t get out a whole lot. She still has a social life, but a man in her life would be great for her in my opinion. I think she gets a little frustrated about it, but I am not sure what’s going on. I see women her age with men that I scratch my head about. But, I guess in due time.

That’s a quick summary update. I have a lot of topics I want to touch on. Let’s see if I can get back into writing mode again. Hope everyone out there is doing well.

My grandfather was laid to rest on 2/15/10. He passed on 2/10/10 at 2:20 AM at the age of 85. I want to thank all of the people that have asked about him over the years and those of you that were kind enough to put him and my family in your prayers. It was greatly appreciated and I thank you from the bottom of my heart. My grandfather was more of a father to me than a grandfather as I was raised by a single parent mother with the help of my grandparents. My mother and I lived with my grandparents for most of my life until I was in the 9th or 10th grade. When my mother was financially able for us to move from my grandparents home, they begged her to let me stay with them. When she informed them that she wanted me with her my grandfather became physically ill. He was always one of my biggest supporters in everything I did.

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This is a tough story to write about, it is sad yet up lifting. A friend of my mother’s had not checked in with her over the New Years weekend and hadn’t made it to church. When she mentioned it to me, I told her not to worry she was probably spending some time with her new boyfriend. You know how we get when we get a new flame. Sometimes we may have a long weekend together and just disappear from everyone else.

My mom is on Face Book although she has no real idea of how to truly use it and has not even set up her profile completely. She will browse her friend’s pages to look at pictures from time to time, but that is the extent of it.

Late Sunday night after trying not to worry about her friend she decided to go to her friend’s FB page and for some reason was unable to pull it up. She remembered her sister was on FB and was able to find her page. She sent the sister an email saying that she didn’t want to worry her, but she hadn’t heard from her sister and wondered if she had heard from her.

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I received a question from a blog reader recently and decided to put it in the Ask FGM section. Here is her question: “FGM I have been a fan for awhile and some of your more entertaining reads were your experiences with Ms Les. I know those were awhile back but they were hot. I am not into anal, but those experiences sounded great. Especially that she was able to have orgasms from anal. I am thinking about exploring in that direction but wanted to know if you could describe how it feels compared to regular sex and which is better?”

Interesting question and it has been asked a few times. I know a few readers have shown interest about this since reading my blog. Let me start off by saying, the kitty is undefeated. Cars, money, power, houses have all felt the defeat of the kitty. Most of those things are used just to get the kitty. So, to be clear I love getting the kitty more than the booty.

The kitty is warmer, wetter, deeper and tasty. Anal is a bit different of an experience from regular penetration. The ass first and foremost is tighter than the kitty. Even if a woman does her kegels the kitty won’t be as tight as the ass. When the kitty grips the dick it feels great, but it does not grip the entire dick. Once the dick gets into the ass it grips the entire dick from head to base, which I think is the biggest difference. When doing anal using lube is important, but most times if a woman is turned on from foreplay the ass will self lube. Also, after the woman is able to get comfortable the ass is not as tight so you can fuck the ass more aggressively as you go on and it a lot of times will open up so you can penetrate it like the kitty.

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What’s up people. Here is a lil love your boy is sending out to you. This can help in the romance department. Massages are always a good way to relax both giving and receiving. I have found a lot of people are not comfortable giving massages. If you happen to be one of those people or would like to step your game up a little, this is a nice video on Tantric massage. Use it as is or add your own personal touch to techniques shown. The video shows techniques for both men and women.

Just click on the link and the video open and play on your screen. There is no downloading needed. Hopefully this will add a little relaxation, enjoyment and spice to your life. There is nudity so don’t open it up at the job.

Tantric Massage Video